My wedding coming up.. and it'll be our first night.. any ideas on how to sweep her off her feet?
can I ask a hotel attendant to bring stuff up to the hotel room before we get there?
thanx!
2007-02-14 14:25:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
On my wedding night my husband went to our room earlier that day and prepaired it for that night. He also had the hotel attendent do a few things right before we arrived like run up and lite the candles and turn on the music. He had candles everywhere, rose petels laying on the bed and on the floor. Also he had 20 bundles of 12 roses each in red and white all over the room. there was soft music playing and low lights. It was a wonderful experience and i absolutly loved it. Also he had fruit and chocolate in a fondue pot waiting beside the bed so we could feed each other. Maybe this could help you out i hope it does!
2007-02-14 14:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alot of Hotels won't take things to the room for you beforehand. However, if you have a wedding planner they will most often do this for you as a courteousy. I would not ask anyone else to decorate or make the room romantic. The whole point is to make the night memorable. If someone else decorates, that isn't very romantic or creative. Go to the room prior to the ceremony, and do a little decorating yourself. Try putting some rose petals on the bed. Place candles around the room, and in the bathroom and light them when you get back to the room. Draw your new wife a bath, and let her relax after a long day while you get things ready. Have a few fruits on hand like maybe strawberries, raspberries etc to dip in chocolate. Kinda like a little foreplay. The chocolate can be used for other things as well. Have some massage oils set out to massage those tired muscles. Just take it slow, be gentle with each other. Don't set your expectations to high, after a long day you both might be a little tired. Most of all just have fun, and be happy. You have the rest of your life to perfect sex with your new wife!
2007-02-14 22:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by MizMissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just so you know 85% of people that get married don't do it on there wedding night just think if you get up at 7am an are running around to do hair make up an getting ready pictures an dancing last thing on your mind is sex just in case that you are the 15% tons of KY an get some champagne bubble bath an talk to the hotel if they can draw a hot bath at 10:25 an your up there at 10:35 an have fun an don't put to much on this take your time its a wonderful thing an congrats
2007-02-15 00:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by rodeogirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a gift of a beautiful classy umbrella in her fav color- because it is raining love.
If you are staying in the bridal suite they may already have some goodies prepared such as champagne and a fruit basket... how about some strawberries and whipped cream... how about an in house massage in the spa (or the 2 masseuses to come to room) immediatly following the reception to help you both relax and wind down... then a soak in the whirlpool bath... then provately both dress and have a cd of great music for about 15-20 minutes of slow loving dance together... as you plan to dance together for a lifetime... take the lead and make it an eventful memory for always.
2007-02-14 22:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by lindasue m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats and I think you should get people to put her favorite flower pedals around the hotel room (it will make it special) and try not to fight during the wedding or after (like when u get to the hotel room) it will really make it a bad memory.
2007-02-14 22:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practically thinking... you will both need to rest as the day is very stressful and exhausting. How about a nice foot massage and back rub. If she falls asleep, then that is fine if things go elsewhere,,, you will know what to do.Follow the next day with a professional massage in the Hotel .
2007-02-14 22:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by Smart Nurse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, I didn't sleep from the morning the day before the wedding until the evening the night after the wedding. I was just wired. I don't think anything could've relaxed me.
2007-02-14 23:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get one of the groom's men and or a bride's maid to deliver the bags to the room and set it up with rose petals on the bed. Sadly most places won't let you light candles but for future notice they are romantic.
2007-02-14 22:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you will be tired, and likely both your expectations will not be met.
Good luck.
Best to get an Uncle or similar to advise you on all the right moves, including an early get away from the reception.
2007-02-14 22:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by Been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like first night sex wise? Well if she is a virgin make sure you get a lubricant, it will make it less painful for her, and just take all the inhibitions and awkwardness away...who says you have to have sex that night anyway...wait a day when you arent all worked up...
2007-02-14 22:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by JP 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋