she's had a long day at school and she just finish her school work, know i understand that when you go to college it can be a drag. Now she doesnt want to do anything tonight she says that we can celebrate it this weekend witch i have no problem with it, but i got a call from a few of my friends and they want to go out to the clubs. I havent told my wife the plan for tonight and i have thought about the consequences about this but to be in the safe side i just rather get some advice from a some one that dosnt know us. So what do you think should i tell her am going out or should i just call off my plans for tonight.
2007-02-14 14:25:38 · 9 answers · asked by jmg559 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd consider the thought that maybe she might be looking forward to spending the evening with you alone. If you definitely know that is not the case then I'd "ask" her if she would mind if you went out since you were looking forward to doing something and your friends called and said they'd be out. It's just the way to be any day of your relationship. Because it is Valentine's Day it might feel wrong. If it feels wrong to you then you'll regret going. Follow your gut instincts. They are there for a reason. Good luck and God Bless!
2007-02-14 14:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just ask her if she would mind if you went out seeing as she is too tired. Tell her that you wanted to go out with her but since she doesn't want to so would she mind if you did? You'll be able to tell by her response if she cares or not. But you'd better make sure that you get home at a decent hour and not be drunk. And I hope you realize that it IS valentine's day. If she is very very very understanding then you may get away with it. But if you 2 have problems then I think you'd best stay home or it will be thrown in your face every chance she gets. Good luck.
2007-02-14 22:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Me2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her about the plans for tonight that friends called and want you 2 to go out and if she doesn't want to go then stay home with her it is valentines day and she would probably be upset if you went clubbing without her.
2007-02-14 22:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends come and go, but you are planning to live the rest of your life with your wife (don't you?).
Please remember that if she is working hard and going to school, it's not all for herself. It's for the family, for the both of you.
If I were you, I would have made sure that she knows you appreciate all her effort and would have spent more time with her than your friends.
Cheers
2007-02-14 22:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by GucciGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u should call off ur plans unless u want to sleep on the floor.....ur wife should come first before ur friends....if my bf went out wen i said i didnt want to do anything i wud b so mad at him that i wud not talk to u 4 a long time....
2007-02-14 22:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your boys, you won't have to ask this question next Valentines, because you probably won't have a wife.
2007-02-14 22:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by sity.cent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. Even though you're not doing anything with your wife, it doesn't mean she doesn't want you there. Bad night to go out with the buds.
2007-02-14 22:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Nichole D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call off the plans and spend your time at home with her.Even if she's sleeping.
2007-02-14 22:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call off your plans and stay with your wife.....you are married man and you should stay home and not go at clubs..dughhh
2007-02-14 22:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Amko B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋