Am I repeatedly dating the same person over and over???

Question

Sometimes I feel like I am dating the same person over and over and over with many faces. I feel like I am repeating history everytime I am in the arms of a new man. Is there a reason behind this? Feels like a never ending relationship...when I meet a new guy, it just feels like a sequel from the last relationship.

Answer 1

I suppose you have to ask yourself, what do all the men you date have in common? There must be a common factor, something your attracted to about these men. If you are unhappy with every new man, maybe you should try dating someone different, someone that you might not normally go out with. Or you are just cynical about relationships like me. You know when you just feel like there is no such thing as a good relationship for you. I have the same problem. I remind myself that I am totally neurotic and there is no perfect man. Maybe you should try being single for awhile to find out what you really want.

Answer 2

ah trust me .. been there! it seems like everytime i meet a new guy though a lot of things look different, there still is that annoying stuff somewhere somehow that I hate! I try using new strategies while dating like asking the questions to figure out .. if its a repeat again!.......but its hard. It takes time for two people to actually know each other good enough to make better decisions.

I suggest you make a note of things that you don't want to see for sure in the guy!! and then when you date, take all the time you need to figure out if he has any of those DON"TS and if he does, you know its a repeat... the only thing hard though is to make sure you break it off! .. But once you do that.. you will be Much Happier! :)

Answer 3

Maybe you're not delving deep enough into their personalities. After all, every person is unique in at least a little sense.

Or, you could be stuck into an experiment that involves the perpetual rotation of androids in placement with your love life.