How do I turn a friends with benefits relationship into a real relationship?

Question

Okay, a few months ago I lost my virginity to this guy I really like. He said he wasn't interested in a relationship and I was okay with that, but now I like him more. I don't think he wants a relationship though, but I want to be in an exclusive relationship. How do I convince him to be exclusive with me?

I really really want to be with him.

Answer 1

I dont Know the Answer

Answer 2

You should be up front with him and let him know that if he wants to be a friend with benefits that it only be you that hes sleeping with and nobody else and over a short peroid of time he will see whats going on and will be part of the relationship without hesitation.

Answer 3

Oh God. That's terrible. I think you should let him know how you feel but get ready to hear the worst. He is probably going to tell you again that he is not interested in a relationship. After that stop sleeping with him, please. You're going to really want to though b/c ur going to crave any kind of intimacy with him. Not sleeping with him may make him pursue you more, you never know, but I doubt it. Good Luck!Try not to sleep with guys that tell u they are not interested in relationships, they r just users,

Answer 4

Guys are up front about things. Trust me...move on. He told you that he was not looking for a relationship and sleeping with him was a bad move on your part. Why would you lose your virginity to a guy who does not care about you? Wrong move. Cut your losses and sleep with someone who want to be with you. Love yourself enough to do that!

Answer 5

Sorry, you are in for some heartbreak here.

Better to force yourself into obsessing over another guy than to wait for this guy to treat you as anything more than he already has... a nice L*Y.

Best wishes.

Answer 6

You won't ever get that honey, sorry...he got the milk for free...why buy the cow as they say???