Is it usual practice for a girlfriend to demand money from her boyfriend so she can go out on dates? Usually once or twice a week I have to buy my girlfriend an outfit, paint her toes and give her some money so she can enjoy her dates with other people. I do enjoy seeing her with other people, even though I can never be with anyone else but her (she holds the key to my chastity belt). But it is getting expensive, is there a limit to how much a guy should spend on his girlfriend each week?
2007-02-14 14:20:00 · 15 answers · asked by Pet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-14 14:31:40 · update #1
It could be several reasons why she likes the gifts. She is either doing you a good favor (if you catch my drift) that she feels that gifts is the way to pay her back. She might know too well that you really like her and she is taking advantage of that. She might have been told wrong at some point that men are obligated to buy gifts for their women. Or it could be that she is so used to being spoiled with gifts (from her parents) that she feels it is your duty to do the same.
If she is with you because of the gifts, the relationship doesn't sound so promising. Test her out. Stop buying her gifts and if she gets angry at you because you are not getting her what she wants, then maybe it's time to move on.
2007-02-14 14:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say sew up the wallet and stop being her maid and see if her feelings suddenly change. While paying for a girlfriend while on a date with her, any other money or gifts should come only if the boyfriend himself wants to give them. From your question you feel pushed into giving her money and gifts and services. I ask you this, does she do anything like these things for you? If not, then cease doing the things you mentioned and see if she changes. If she does, she's been using you, if she still loves you, then you need to talk about what is to be expected and what is not for you BOTH.
2007-02-14 14:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by mirela_camlo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 04:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but that is incredibly wrong. your girlfriend is just using you. First off: she shouldnt be dating other people if she is your girlfriend. And Second: No girlfriend has a right to use her boyfriend as an ATM. i felt bad even letting my last guy buy me lunch when i was low on cash.
my advice is to break up with this gold-digger and find someone who likes you for you.
sorry to be so harsh but i had to tell you what i honestly thought.
i wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-14 14:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it sounds like your girl is usuing you for the money. I know your probably one of those sweet boyfriends but once in a while you have to say NO!. She should be able to pay for her own clothes and manicures. Sure theres nothing wrong with giving her a couple of bux now and then but not to the point when its over 200 a week and when its constant. If i was you sit her down and tell her whats wrong. tell her you cant keep giving money out constantly for dates that aint even with you! she might take offense but shell understand.
Hope i helped
xoxoMoeisha
2007-02-14 14:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Moeisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um are you serious. In 4 words shes sucked you in.
Dont give her money. I have never heard of anything as ridiculous as this before, and ur girlfriend if you can really call her that, is totally not into you, and is just using you as a credit card.
Tell her to get a job. Hang ona sec, isnt tha a song by the Offspring??
2007-02-14 14:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have to spend NOTHIN on a girl unless its a holiday or b day or jus wana buy a lil sumtin for her.....maybe your the kind of guy who has some cash and shes just using u...sorry to say.
2007-02-14 14:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by big_preggy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is using you. You should only pay for movies tickets or lunch/dinner if you go together. You should only buy things for her if you want to do it, but not when she demands it.
You're spending on her like she was your spouse. If you can afford it, that's fine; but don't over do it.
2007-02-14 14:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, No, No!! The only money I have ever heard about a boyfriend spending is for a babysitter if his girl fiend has a child. You should only spend money on her for her your you and her!
2007-02-14 14:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! it is normal to spend maybe 25 $$ a week
2007-02-14 14:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Maddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋