our little differences came in at the last minute.The thingy is over and I`m stuck alone here on v. day what to do now?
2007-02-14 14:16:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You will not realize it for a while (maybe a few years), but you just caught the luckiest break of your life.
Try again next VD.
2007-02-14 14:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad the break-up came before the marriage. That may sound cold, but better it should happen now. Now you allow yourself to mourn the loss of the relationship but then you dust yourself off and resume your life. Make it fullfilling for yourself. Someone will come along who will be everything you think you need and want and you will have a new love in time. Don't rush into anything, however. Take your time so you find just the right person. I'm sorry you had such a sad experience.
2007-02-14 14:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with yo mama, its better to have happened before you were married because that would get both financially and emotionally exhausting going through a divorce. Dont consider this time a waste because relationships never are. You probably learned some things about yourself as well as others from this. Just make sure to think about these experiences and take them with you and one day you will meet someone that is right for you and then you will have a great marriage. take care
2007-02-14 17:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) it's obvious you both weren't ready for marriage because you quarreled over petty things...
2) it's true you made a mistake, everyone does and it hurts...
3) you need some time alone now to relax and think about other things...
what you can do? hang out with your friends and share with them your painful experience to get it off your chest. go for a long walk and yell into the woods if that helps you... do something you've always wanted to do that your ex didn't like you to do... read up about something interesting that you can learn from... make sure you do something to occupy yourself and remember it is not your fault... if it were your fault, you should apologize and just be friends... cheerup!!! :P it's not the end of the world and many have gone through similar cases...
2007-02-14 14:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time to put the past behind you and move on. It didn't happen for a reason.
2007-02-14 14:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a strip club with a fist full of dollars and forget about her.
2007-02-14 14:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Awww, cheer up!! Atleast you will appreciate the future valentines days when you do have someone.......
2007-02-14 14:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by lisa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋