This guy I went out with Saturday and I had talked to on Sunday and emailed eachother then he called me last night and we talked for an hour. Now I sit here on V-day and I didnt even get a call from him not even an email. Why do you men do that. Act like your interested and then act like you arent the next day?? Should I be offended by this?? Or is it to much to give a simple hello on the phone. we just started going out Saturday. If a guy is interested dont they call you everyday?
2007-02-14 14:16:22 · 12 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause he's a loser
2007-02-14 14:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I went out with somebody once and she thought she owned me like you think you own him, I would get rid of her. And no, we don't call every day, especially after only 1 date. I would, however, agree that a call on Valentine's Day would be appropriate. On the other hand, I also think Valentine's Day is the biggest scam going and was dreamed up by Hallmark and all those candy companies and all the florists to turn a buck.
2007-02-14 14:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didn't call because it would have been too much too soon; you have been going out less than a week and just getting to know each other...guys only do something for a girl when they are in a committed relationship with the girl, on then, only because the have to if they want to remain in a committed relationship.
2007-02-15 03:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said you only been together since Sat. Perhaps the hour long conversation last night included him saying happy valentines to you. Besides the day is not over yet, sweetie. you may be getting your panties all in a bunch for nothing. Just seems your asking to much to soon. I hope he calls you.
2007-02-14 14:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, guys do NOT call everyday. period.
Now, how old is this dude?
He is probably crumbling under the pressure of this day and the new relationship, or he is with his other ladies.
Either way, time for you to "move on", because he would/could of at least called today. At the very least he is not up to stepping up and saying "Happy Valentine's Day". How hard is that? He is not worth your effort.
2007-02-14 14:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't call u on Valentine's Day, it probably means he is not interested in pursuing a real relationship with u. If u want 2 quit wondering, call him but he may not answer b/c he's probably spending Valentine's wth someone else. Sorry to be so blunt.
2007-02-14 14:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Carina G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The night is not over yet. but if he don't call i'd be offended. No i'd be heated. don't let this man play games with your emotions from the very begining or he will do it throughout the entire relationship.
2007-02-14 14:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by kristina r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's 2007 just in case you didn't know. You see; now a days the women [gf] can call the man [bf] and it's okay. He might be sitting beside his phone saying; "F**k why is this b*tch not calling me".
CALL HIM! Really, it's okay.
2007-02-14 14:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't be offended maybe he is busy and can't call you or he has gotten a new girlfriend. We do that to try to get laid. You don't put out then shut up. good luck
2007-02-14 14:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE MAY HAVE A LEGITIMATE REASON BUT ON THE OTHER HAND HE MAY HAVE MORE THAN ONE FLAME HE IS TRYING TO NURSE ALONG. REMEMBER MEN ARE LIKE A ROOSTER IN A HEN HOUSE.
2007-02-14 14:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not neccisarily. have you considered that he might have had other plans before you started going out or that today isn't even over yet. give it some time you'll find out
2007-02-14 14:23:43 · answer #11 · answered by B-Boy Objective 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋