There's this guy at my skool and he is HOTTIE. but he's not willing 2 be tied down 2 one gurl. He flirts with all of us. i've tried 2 push him away when he tries 2 hug me but when i try he pushes me up against the wall untill i do. If i strugle out of his grasp when he puts his arm around me he shoves me. and he knos i have trouble with my knee so when i rejected a kiss he slamed my knee in the door. so how do i tell him to leave me alone. i used 2 LOVE the attention but now its hurting me.
2007-02-14 14:05:24 · 13 answers · asked by I'm. Not. Okay. 121. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O No!!Girl take my advice you need to let him know where you stand. I have a boy like that at my school and he knows when he is over stepping his boundaries. Just tell him you are through with him and he is a sorry excuse for a man. You need to tell him that what he is doing is wrong and no means no! Don't you ever let a boy put his hands on you just be straight forward with him and tell him like it is!! That might mean losing a friend, but he wasn't one anyway if he hurts you like that
2007-02-14 14:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is pushing or hurting you in any way, you need to stand up for yourself. If this not the attention that you want from him then you need to let him know in a forceful way. I have been in the same situation. Just let the guy know in a serious tone that you don't want that kind of attention. Don't do it while laughing or smiling, he might think that you are just playing games, being shy, or flirty. If you tell him with a straight face and a serious tone then he should take it in the same manner.
If he doesn't seem to understand what you are trying to tell him then bring your friends with you so they can witness this scene. Also talk to your friends and see if they feel the same way. If more than one person acts this way to him, he might get the picture better.
Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!
2007-02-14 14:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by LuLu Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone. that you are not interested.
Even IF he stops, you still need to let someone know what he is doing. Tell someone (a teacher, a parent) that this is going on. you are being harassed and he is not taking "NO" for an answer.
It may just be pushing you around in the halls now, but what if later he does something worse because he never learned what "NO" means?
2007-02-14 14:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a flirt is one thing.
hurting you by hitting your knee is assault.
this guy is a showman, he believes the girls are his to do as he pleases, he can get away with it because no one will stand up to him, he has enough influence to tear down the rep of any who opposes him...what a guy, makes for a good politician.
if he is a bother to you, dont keep it all on inside, inform a teacher or the principal that he is being abusive.
if you arent doing that because rep is so important in school, then you are just self-sabotaging yourself for more hurting to yourself.
2007-02-14 14:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him flat out to stop it, and be firm, and if he doesn't, talk to a counselor or the school principal. What's he's doing could be considered sexual harassment, especially if he's touching you without your permission. And slamming your knee into the door just to hurt you is just cruel. You should definitely tell someone who has authority at your school about that.
2007-02-14 14:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by cg17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to turn the jerk in to school authorities...that kind of behavior is unacceptable. Ask them if they can keep the matter confidential if you are afraid of repurcussions. He needs to be stopped, because if he is doing this now, he will only get worse as he gets older until he becomes a full-fledged date raper or wife beater!
2007-02-14 14:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by nexgenjenith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Tell him that he's hurting you. If he doesn't lisen tell a teacher or someone in authoriy. No guy has the right to hurt you the the way this guy does. Hope this helps
2007-02-14 14:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by ??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl tell him to leave u alone and when he tries to touch u beat the f??? out of him
2007-02-14 14:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tyshinia H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him his flirtatious ways are no longer fun - that you are turned off and you would appreciate if he would take his game play elsewhere. You find him rude and disrespectful. Ignore him and report his sexual harassment if necessary.
2007-02-14 14:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by LMMMD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG this guy sounds like a couple words I can't say on here!! Tell him to buzz off, and if that doesn't work, tell you teacher/principal.
2007-02-14 14:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by Pyro kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋