i used to love this girl
then i went to hating her
and i think i still do
i dont wanna not talk to her ever again
but i dont wanna talk to her ever again
what do i do ?
how do i figure this out ?
she's been mean
i dont see why i wanna talk to her anymore
but i cant picture not talking to her
helpp !!
please and thanks
2007-02-14 13:55:08 · 24 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u really don't liike her, don't talk to her..duh
2007-02-14 13:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by girlfrann. 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude.
First off, take a deep breathe, an try an relax.
Its perfectly natural what your feeling, though uncomfortable.
Your not alone, I'm in exactly the same place with a lass.
Its part of your defence systems kicking in, protection for yourself battling with your love for that girl.
It sucks big time, but it will get easier. Its a mare 'cus there's nothing you can do, no matter what advice you get or try an convince yourself of it just gonna take time, when your ready to let go you will.
It's a credit to yourself an how much love you got to give mate, you are better than this an don't deserve to keep beating yourself up over it.
Hang in there an chin up, one day it'll click I promise, but don't worry in the meantime your feeling it for a reason, so feel it, process it then let it go.
Big ups bruv.
2007-02-14 22:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a few days break from this girl and keep yourself occupied with other things. Not with other girls, but with your buddies, family, sports, hobbies, schoolwork, work, resting. Anything but girls. Maybe you'll find out that life is pretty dull without her or maybe you'll find out that she really doesn't add much good to your life and you don't miss her.
See how you feel in a week but don't sweat it because driving yourself crazy isn't going to allow your heart and head to work together to find a good answer to your question.
2007-02-14 21:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by ssssss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it.
Hatred is bad for the soul. I think at least you can be civil to her.
Just talk to her like to an acquaintance instead of a girlfriend.
2007-02-14 21:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by ira a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write yourself a letter and in this letter, write everything that's on your mind about this girl [ and be honest ] Now get a complete stranger to read it and tell you if it's ok to send to her. If it is, then send it or email it.Hope this helps,good luck.
2007-02-14 22:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Spazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should think completely if something she did made you feel bad?some of her behavior?or some attitude she treated you made you unhappy?she hurt your heart?you start to hate her,maybe coz you compress something in your mind,give sometime to yourself,think about what's happened?When does this feeling start?Any event about her in this while?Take some time,don't be hurry,then figure out it slowly.
2007-02-14 22:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by VY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
incredible feeling ..
u already fall in love with her ..
do both of u hate each other ? or only u ? ..
hurm .. u need to talk with her ..
if it did'nt work .. send her a letter .. or tell her friends
to tell her tat u love her ...
p/s hope it work ..!
2007-02-14 21:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what happened between you two?
that part is left out and needs to be addressed before you ask.
was is her that wronged you or vice versa?
2007-02-14 21:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over her if you don't like her and you hate her then you still hate her.
2007-02-14 22:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women you can't live with them but you can't live without them..Be true to how you feel.. if she is hurts you and you don't want her to do that anymore ..tell her to stop it..its no good holding on to someone who doesn't deserve you
2007-02-14 22:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound confused... talk to her, but only when you have something to say. keep her in your life, but dont let her hurt you again...
2007-02-16 21:17:22 · answer #11 · answered by Marsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋