2007-02-14 13:36:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
we were kind of a fill in and arn't that close to the couple.
2007-02-14 13:59:00 · update #1
it would be nice of you to invite them, if your getting married yourself really soon that its best to invite them. But its really your wedding and its your choice, you make all the plans and its up to you if you want to or not.
2007-02-14 13:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you really dont like them and you feel their presence will tarnish your day. Just use the excuse that you have a big family and you can only invite your really close friends. I'm lucky because that is very true in my case so I dont have to feel guilty. If i were you I wouldnt invite someone that you will look back on your wedding in 20 years and all you can think about is how much you wish they werent there and they spoilt the whole day with their presence
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2007-02-14 13:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't really close to them and you were just a body at their wedding, I wouldn't bother. Weddings are expensive and they will understand that. If they ask, which I doubt they will, just say it was a small venue or you would have but the entire side of your family expected to be invited, even third cousins.
2007-02-14 16:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by stampadhesive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly no..just because you went to there's doesn't mean that they have to go to yours..Honestly its like Christmas or any other holiday just because somebody gives you a gift you don't need to give them one..everything comes from the heart and if you weren't invited or you don't invite them they will have to understand
that maybe something happened maybe there/you are having a small wedding and you can only have a certain amount of people.I hoped i help I'm not really sure if i did but hey how much could I a 17 year old know but honestly that's from my point of view.
2007-02-14 13:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, but it would be a nice gesture. If you have had a falling out since then or something (and that's why you don't want them there), then even if you invite them they might not come. Or, if you have a tighter budget/not as much space as they did, then you wouldn't need to invite them, and if they ever asked about it you could explain that you were having a really small ceremony/reception/whatever.
2007-02-14 13:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by cg17 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. The fact that they have invited you doesn't mean you are in any way obligated to invite them back.
This is your wedding and only you and your fiancee will choose who will be invited.
Even your parents shouldn't get involved much UNLESS they helped you pay for the wedding.
2007-02-14 15:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how close you are. If you dont feel like inviting them, then dont. But clearly they've thoght that you are close enough to be invited to thier wedding.
2007-02-14 13:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by kabama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be nice 2 invite them but u dnt hav 2
2007-02-14 13:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by sxc biatch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Invite who you want.
2007-02-14 14:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be polite unless you are having a very small wedding why not?
2007-02-14 13:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Nora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋