Is god with me?

Question

I am christian, and I pray all days i have been asking good to have a grilfriend so it help me out with some sins and promest him i will never have that sin if he help me with some gf but i have faith all days and he never help me.

Answer 1

When you say "Is god with me?"
It makes me wonder if you have things in the proper order. Perhaps better to ask "Am I with God?"
Men all want a God who will answer their prayers and give them what they want, but once after feeding 5000 with 5 loaves and 2 fish, the people were pursuing Jesus, who had slipped away from them. When they found Him He said "Truly, truly, I say to you, you seek Me not because you saw signs, but because you ate of the loaves and were filled. Do not work for the food which perishes, but for the food which endures to eternal life, which the Son of Man shall give you, for on Him the Father, even God, has set His seal." (John 6:26,27)
What I am saying is, you may have a desire for certain things to be changed in your life and put in order, but sometimes God has far more sweeping changes that He wants to accomplish - like a transformed nature. God wants to be first in your life. He will never allow Himself to be simply an addition to your life. Jesus said "Seek first the Kingdom of God, and His righteousness, and all these things (worldly necessities) will be added unto you." (Matthew 6:33)
God requires radical change. This is why Jesus said "You must be born again." (John 3:7)
If you are willing to let God have first place in your life, He will then provide for your needs. Please, read the Bible - especially the New Testament, and may God open you heart to understand His ways.

Answer 2

god with you or God with you?

If you are a Christian, know that the Holy Spirit or the Spirit of God is sealed in you until the 2nd coming of Christ. Your body is a temple of God.

I am sorry about your hopes being deferred. You may not be feeling all that good in your heart (I have been through that road before) but can I encourage you to have the peace of God, knowing that all things work for good for you?

And if you have faith... there wouldn't be this outburst of unbelief. Faith is a quiet confidence and the opposite of fear. =) You will be fine! She missed out on you but that is her loss.

Shalom.

Answer 3

Are you doing anything to help yourself about finding a g/f? Or are you just laying on your bed praying for one?
There is a verse in the bible that says something like take the first step and god will do the rest.
For EVERYTHING you do, you must take the first step, and supposedly god will do the rest.
What actually happens is that you end up having to do everything, because God seems to have forgotten about this corner of the universe.
Anyway, you have to go out and talk to girls, go to clubs, sports, games, the movies, the mall, and talk to girls.
If you dont talk to them, how will you find one?

Answer 4

God does not make bargains. Live your life as free of sin as you possibly can and be faithful to God. When you are doing things His way, he will turn your life in the direction that He knows is best. It may not be what you want at the time but in the long run it will be to your advantage. God Bless.

Answer 5

God's answer to your prayer is not always what you want it to be. Whatever that sin that you are dealing with, He wants you to rely on Him to help you deal with it, not a girlfriend. My suggestion is to pray for strength to deal with the sin. the Bible states for every temptation placed before man, He has an escape.

Answer 6

Yes.The god is always with us.The moment his closed up the door in the hand he will provides the windows for us to survive.Do you heard the story of a pieces of cake.One lady just broken up the relatioship with his boy friend and failure the exam at school and she very sadless.Her mother invited having the lovely cakes together at kitchen.........."all the uncooked matter tastes badly but if you put in together and mixed it in microware will become prefect and nicely." that what the cakes make it.The god will put everthing good to you for picked up and taste it,when you mixed it together you will see the different way and actually things you really want and need it.

Answer 7

GOD is NOT AGAINST YOU.
GOD gave you FREE WILL, so when you make a decision YOU MADE IT YOURSELF.
GOD is hopeful you will choose to follow the teachings humanity has been given, through Jesus, but GOD will not FORCE you to do anything.
Concentrate on helping yourself make a good impression to the woman you have feelings for, focus on your education, and being caring, decent could not hurt. (Review what your parents talked about when they met, dancing, activities in common with others, etc.)
What sins you have were forgiven, when you went to confession, so GOD is with you, you have to gain confidence in this.
Best of luck in your quest!

Answer 8

Umm...what? Dude, girlfriends aren't objects to ask for, especially if you are trading them for sin. Doesn't matter if you are Christian or not, you need to reevauluate how you view others.

Answer 9

God has a plan for all of us. Many of my prayers have gone unanswered. As time passes I find myself thanking God more and more for my unanswered prayers. For example, I prayed that he would return my ex-fiance to me so that we could repair our relationship after he left me for another women. He is now in prison. If God had brought him back like I asked him to I would still be without him. God is not ignoring you. It's just not in his plan for you.

Answer 10

God is always with you. God answers some prayers and others he doesn't , in either case, GOd is working everything in our lives for the best. You should accept God's will for you life and then you will be happy. GOd's will be done, not ours. we must learn patience and how to listen to what God wants from us. Keep praying and stay faithful. peace.