Ok so here it goes- We met in the fall and became friends, we then knew we both liked each other, so i asked her to homecoming, and she said yes. But once everyone knew what I did, they advised me to back peddle. So I did. About 1 month later, her friend tells me she likes me, and she told me she likes me. (Now here comes the pickle) I liked her to, a lot. But the thing with this girl is that she was A TEASE and she was supposibly UNFAITHFUL. So I passed, we still remained friends but now I think I made a mistake, I think I was to caught up in what others said. Now I want another shot, so I'm going to try and get her to like me like that again. (DO YOU THINK THIS WILL WORK, AND IS IT A GOOD IDEA TO GO OUT WITH SOMEONE WHO IS UNFAITHFUL AND A TEASE.)
2007-02-14 13:18:22 · 6 answers · asked by cpc_2591 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and i know this doesnt make sense but she prude
2007-02-14 13:23:07 · update #1
and she has moved on from me with other guys
2007-02-14 13:28:40 · update #2
Who told you she was unfaithful and why would you believe them without talking to her? A tease meaning what? She's a flirt and friendly? Not sure why women are called such nasty names for doing the same thing men do without consequences or reprecussions. If you like her then the only opinion that should have mattered then was your own. If she is willing to give you another chance then you should be very grateful and think for yourself while you are with her.
2007-02-14 13:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is a tease to some extent so I wouldn't let that worry you.
Being unfaithful is more serious but you have to ask yourself unfaithful to what. If she is married and being unfaithful to her husband it is not a good situation but if she is going to the movies with one guy and dinner with someone else it is only that she has no fixed responsibilities and is exploring the options. You can only be unfaithful if you have made a promise which you are breaking. If there is no commitment how can you break it?
Why you let your friends influence you so much is not clear. Make your own mind up.
2007-02-14 21:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by John B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How do you KNOW she is a tease and unfaithful? Past boyfriends? If it's them, don't listen to them...it may be jealousy, or the guys just being idiots.
If you don't try it, you'll never know.
If you really can't get past it, talk with HER directly. It's B.S. to have hidden agendas, etc. in a relationship. Trust is paramount to any good relationship!
Go for it!!!
2007-02-14 21:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by mhcgjl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really are in a pickle but i would have to say that if you really like this girl you would have ignored what everyone else said and stayed with the girl. And also you propbably dont have to get the girl to like you again because its possible that she still has feeling for you.I think you should go for it. And this time ignore what everyone else says cuz it wont matter if you are with the girl who you truely want to be with.
2007-02-14 21:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by iceprincessk8r 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't know what she's really like unless you find out yourself. Other people might just be telling you from their point of view, and maybe their point of view is totally different from yours. Also, people might be purposely lying. Maybe someone out there doesn't want you to go out with her. It's going to be easy to win her heart back, since she liked you once, she probably still likes you.
2007-02-14 21:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just go up to her, tell her how you fell and how you messed up and how much you like her. That would be what I would do.
2007-02-14 21:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by CHRIS S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋