some examples are like fat punk of rock or just werid i like to firlt with guys i dont like um i like to wear polos skirts with legging i like the 50s and 80s look so i always put things of thos years in my outfits i like to hang out with guys most of the time i always get into fights if i hang out with girls um the guys i hang out with are mexicans and fat and rock but i dont like those kinds of guys
2007-02-14 13:17:59 · 12 answers · asked by missgoodietwoshoes16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, if you don't like those types of guys, why do you hang out with them.
Second, if you don't want to attract them, why do you flirt with them? That's like setting a candle out near a swarm of moths - they don't like getting burned, but they can't resist the light.
Third. I'm glad you like the 50s look. I'm a child of the 50s. (Literally) Was born in 1955, so you can weigh my comments in that light.
Finally, don't sell yourself short. It sounds like you have some idea of the value of your friendship since you worry about not attracting the right kind of guy. Try chatting up or just hanging around the type guys you want in your life. You'll either get very lucky, or at least weed out those that are full of themselves, and not have much to offer in return.
Good luck!
2007-02-14 13:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Carl S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You attract people based on the vibe you send out. Work on being self-confident and standing up for yourself. Listen to your instincts, if a guy seems like scum, he probably is. Its great not to judge on appearance, but you have to trust your gut and follow it. Also, don't look for a relationship because it sends out the desperate vibe and guys think they can use you. Just focus on friends, family, work, or whatever else you have going on in your life. When you love yourself and you are strong in who you are, the right sort of guy may come along. Don't commit too soon, go on a couple of dates with him first. Get to know him, see if your intuition was right (when you get the impression he will treat you well). Notice how he treats other women in his life and even strangers he encounters. But the best thing to do is change the way you see yourself and present yourself. Dress classy, demand respect. That will send the message that you won't let yourself be played.
2016-03-29 06:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These guys are just your type of FRIENDS, not actual dating material. You'll find a nice guy one day (just try not to look too punk/rock/emo).
2007-02-14 13:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out more. Change the crowd you spend time with. You don't have to ditch your old friends, just make some new ones.
2007-02-14 13:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jon T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO! mexicans! im not racist i am mexican i just like the way u said it
juss go up 2 guys u do like and tlk 2 dem
2007-02-14 13:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by darkpayaso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to more guys that you would like rather than those you dont
2007-02-14 13:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by McDiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its the way you present yourself that attracts those type of guys - just look for guys your interested in and approach them - be yourself
2007-02-14 13:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your problem is the kind of people you are friends with arent the kind of people you would date. you need to be friends first. so thats hard.
2007-02-14 13:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, so you like those guys in a non-romantic ways, i get your point there.......you will never get any where with those guys so don't worry about it, you will find the one.......
2007-02-14 13:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are there many people like you.
may the lord preserve us.
2007-02-14 13:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋