the story.
2 years ago a childhood friend of mine visited Houston we hooked up, found chemistry but we left it at that. we talked for a while and for the past 2 years he'd invite me to visit him in Denver for our birthdays (which are two days apart) but i turnd down the numerous invitations. the new year rolled along and i, he asked me to come visit him, saying that " he decided to follow his instincts more and they lead him to me. i agreed and i went to denver where it was all beaituful; the flowers, sex, satin sheets, clubs dinner.
i was woooed.
b4 i came back to home we had "the talk" where he said he was really into me& we should give it a try .
a week after i got back , the calls and txtx stopped. when asked, he said he was sick and didnt feel like talking. i'm no fool. he then said it was more than the sickness to his silence but what it was he wont say. its been a month and i havent heard from him. not an email or text. he is on myspce so i know he is ok.
what do i do?
2007-02-14 13:16:03 · 7 answers · asked by Gyna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him go. You're better off finding someone else who won't toy with your feelings like that. I know it hurts to let a friend go but you deserve better than that. Find a guy in your area who will treat you like the goddess you are. Believe me, we are out there, we're just a little oblivious sometimes.
2007-02-14 13:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Batdan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your in a long distance situation like that,trust me let it go.He was telling you things in the moment that he thought you wanted to hear, and then after he thought about it,he didn't know how to tell you.If he's making excuses then he doesn't want to pursue it any longer,stay friends if possible,but don't fall in to the long distance thing.Let me tell you,I'm in a similar situation someone I knew for a long time got back in touch with me and it was wonderful we talk everyday and even went on a trip together, then he ask me to give up everything and move out to where he lived, biggest mistake of my life, he was like 2 different people, he didn't even act like he was happy when I got off the plane.It's been 2 yrs now and I'm trying to go back home and he isn't even helping me.So take it from someone that's been there,when you find yourself away from friends and family, you will find yourself truely alone.So even if he doesn't call you ,your probably better off. Move on and be happy with someone closer.
2007-02-14 21:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about him, go and visit him again if you can. Probably best way to clarify. Maybe he changed his mind/feelings, but the sooner you know one way or the other the better and you can move on or resolve any potential misunderstandings.
2007-02-14 21:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by S&S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy doesn't have the decency to call,email,txt,etc. his gf then whoevas going out with him doesn't deserve someone who will treat u like crud. my advice is to send him a messagew on myspace telling him that if he doesn't get his act together then it's over.
i think that he has another girl that he's involved with. it is a possibility but i may be wrong.
good luck in this crazy mixed ^ world of ours!!!
happy s.a.d. day peeps!!!!
2007-02-14 21:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a case of Hit-n-Run! Sorry! Next time? Keep your Values, and Body, in tact!
2007-02-14 21:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparentlly all he want was a good time with you and found out it wasnt what he wanted my suggestion to u is to give it time and see what the response is from him. he might even try to ask you to visit him again just for his good time get it
2007-02-14 21:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Justaman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's no good...
straight from a fella...
2007-02-14 21:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋