I met this girl on the internet during school vacations and we chat for hours and it turns out that I have her this girl fpr a class, then I thought, now I can talk to her, and ask her out but the problem is that once we are in class she's always with her friends, and I'm a shy guy so I feel weird talking to her when her friends are always by her side I still chat with her on the internet but once we're in class it's a different story she ignores me, she just says "hi" and that's about it, sometimes I've tried talking to her but everytime I get near she walksfaster on purpose, sometimes I look at her and she smiles with me and I smile back, but i'm confused does she like me or is she shy like I am or is she just playing with me, i like this girl but I can i know what she really wants with me? should I just move on or try to approach her Advice please Thanks for your help!
2007-02-14 13:15:07 · 12 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so, she wants you to chase her! just play it cool for a while and see if she starts to say hi more or something. and when she is with her friends she probably wants to talk to them more b/c you guys seem to talk a lot on the internet! good luck!
2007-02-14 13:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by aviator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once and for all, you have to satisfy all the questions that's in your head. The only way i can recommend is to ask her herself. No other way man! How you will do it is your call. You can write her a letter or you may want to call all the angels in heaven to give you strength and courage so you can talk to her straight. The best way may not always get the best result. The key is to think positive always but be ready to accept the worst.
Another way is to seek help from friends. If you cant do it alone then try to involve others whom you think could help you get near her.
Good Luck and God Bless
2007-02-14 13:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by dexp.rm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she does this when you are talking online. It is the classic scenario that you see on tv where they like you but are afraid to show it in front of their friends. If she keeps ignoring you just shout at her in front of her friends and ask her why she is ignoring you when she spends so many hours online talking to you. She does know that the person she is talking to online is you right?
Can people please go to my profile and answer my most recent q. It wont show up on the singles and dating page for some reason. I need some advice
2007-02-14 13:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Give Up!!! Try to approach her because you dont want to be left wondering what if. If all else fails at least you took a shot at it right???The only way to figure it out is if you talk to her in person. See how she reacts if you see that she is trying to avoid you then thats not a good sign. It could also be she is embarrased so try to catch her when she is alone. Good Luck!
2007-02-14 13:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanette R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her on chat maybe she will say yes if she say no just move on and find a girl who really like you.
2007-02-14 13:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by shakiria d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she likes you, but you are not in the same social group at school. Maybe she is worried about what her friends would think if they found out if she liked you. It sounds terrible, but it is pretty common.
I would ask her online what she honestly thinks about your relationship.
Good luck!
2007-02-14 13:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her "whats the deal?" when you are online chatting. she might feel less insecure about sharing her reservations about talking in person while online. she might be just as afraid as you are, and just using her friends as a security blanket to mask her own fears. talk about it in a forum you both are comfortable- the net.
2007-02-14 13:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by mbla06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she even know that u r the one she is talkin 2 online? dont be shy girls HATE shy guys trust me u can be really good lookin but if u aint sociable it aint gonna work
2007-02-14 13:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by mdmel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well on the internet then just say meet me at this spot of the school and if she does not then just ignore her
2007-02-14 13:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she likes you but don't be shy- you should talk to her. Be funny, that always helps.
2007-02-14 13:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by McDiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋