What happens at a bachelorette party with a stripper (private dancer, not in a club)
Is there full nudity?
Is there stoking of his equipment?
Is there licking of his equipment?
Is there sex?
My fiance is have her bachelorette party soon and some of her friends are very wild. And she gets very crazy when extremely drunk and they keep taking about how drunk they are going to get her. So just wondering what the possiblities are.
If you had a stripper at yours, what exactly happened
2007-02-14 13:08:42 · 8 answers · asked by orangecross666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
There might be full nudity. MIGHT BE. Usually they just dance around in speedos, and the women laugh a lot. None of the other stuff is involved at all. It really is more of a comedic relief than anything else.
2007-02-15 04:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK here is the DL on a male stripper. Most of what happens is that he strips down to his bottoms and gyrates and dances and that is about it. He may take dollars from the guests and he may do some thing that some may call acrobatic. It really just depends on the performer.
here is the thing though. Most companies have STRICT code of conducts that their dancers must follow to avoid any types of litigation that may arise from inappropriate things. If a woman feels like she was sexually assaulted because he did something outside of the box then the company would be held liable. Many owners dont want to risk that.
I have to say that any dancer who allows the "extra" things to go on isnt working towards the best interest of the company. Just to ease your mind though- usually what i have seen is the guests getting more freaky than not- the bride to be is usually the one who was on her best behavior because she is taken...
This goes for males and female dancers. Groping may occur- but no "members" can be pulled out of the underwear. No sex- no sucking, none of that.
I have been to plenty- it was very professional and handled very nice. Nothing for the man to worry about.
Besides- if you trust your woman then you will have to trust her that she wont be doing anything that would disrespect you.
tell her your concerns and let her know you trust her.
2007-02-14 23:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you ask for and if your willing to pay for the extra amount. Yes there is full nudity, and she/he will give a lap dance. There wont be any private touching or sex, thats not what strippers do, but i am sure most of them would if they get paided extra. But they just come and do a dance and take off all clothes than give a lap dance and than leave. I really dont think its right to have a stripper any where near a couple to be, or girlfriend/boyfriend. I think its a cheap way of cheating even if they are just looking not touching. But thats my opinon, but we all got different ones. I think if your worried about something happening with her, than you should talk to her about it and tell her you rather there be no strippers, and that it should be just a all girls thing all together.
2007-02-14 21:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to start the number one thing of a marriage, or any relationship-TRUST. You have to trust her to do what is right and what is wrong. At a Batchelorette party, there is:
Is there full nudity? Sometimes
Is there stoking of his equipment? Sometimes
Is there licking of his equipment? Sometimes
Is there sex? Sometimes
All of this does not matter if your bride to be is faithful. Remember, once a cheater, always a cheater. My sister and a friend had a stripper, and absolutely none of this happened-they loved and respected their future husband.
Ask yourself, if I have a stripper at my Batchelor party, what will I do?
2007-02-14 21:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Learning is fun! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow your wife to have fun but take one of her friends that you trust aside and ask her to make sure our wife doesn't do something she would really regret later. In all likelyhood, her friends would be sure she had fun but didn't overdo it. She's likely to get so drunk she'll be throwing up the whoel next day and regretting it but as far s her doing anythign sexual with the stripper, I doubt it. Her guests will probably be the ones grabbing and putting bills in his thong.
I would trust her to make the right decisons. However, I would not ask her to give you any details. Just ask if she had fun.
2007-02-15 00:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by stampadhesive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cookie I'm a Christian girl and I wouldn't have a stripper at my party, and no one in my family ever had a bacholerette party like that, so I have no idea. If she's marrying you I doubt that she would be all over some other guy, but you know her more than you know us. Why don't you just ask her? Sometimes that helps. Good luck babe!
2007-02-14 21:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by April 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it all depends....but it is possible and definitely happens. but u wouldnt marry someone who even MIGHT lick someone else's stuff or sleep with someone else on you like that would u? Trust her....or maybe you should rethink marrying her. Just because she has wild friends...doesnt necessarily make her wild. You know her...what do u think? Is she a leader or a follower? Will she...or does she love you enough not to?
2007-02-14 21:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by TTerrell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, all of it may happen. I have been to several parties like that and saw it all.
The best policy is don't ask - don't tell.
I hope it all works out.
2007-02-14 23:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋