Me & my ex were togetha for about 2 years. We stopped talking this past September after he tol me i was not serious enough for him / too immature. I know that it was my fault, but when i tried to apoligize, he wouldn`t wana listen. Now, its been 5 months, and we hvave only talked once since, exactly a month ago. He asked how i was but then told me he couldn`t hear "this" anymore. I don`t know what to do because i still have feelins for him & he won`t listen to me. I was goin to call, but i don`t know what to say, or what i should do.
2007-02-14 13:08:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him even if he doesn't want to know tell him to at least LISTEN to what you have to say.
without communication you cant move on and even if did you would always wonder what could've been, so talk to him and let it all out. it would help the both of you.
2007-02-14 13:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nadia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you apologized and he still won't listen, then he's not going to change his ways. He's obviously immature himself if he doesn't even want to listen to anything you say.
Try talking to him one more time, if he doesn't listen to you, then move on from the relationship.
Too much time is wasted on relationships that won't work, no matter what you do. It will be hard, but worth it in the end when you're truly happy in a relationship with someone that wants to hear what you have to say.
By all means, if you think you can save the relationship, then try (without degrading or disrespecting yourself). But you're not the only one who has to make sacrifices...
It takes two to make a relationship work.
2007-02-14 13:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Krimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how that feels! I was in the exact same boat!!! for a year when me and my boyfriend broke up but every once in awhile I would call him (about once a month) and talk about things just like friends would do. Then after I had had enough of trying so hard to be with him and him not wanting to be with me I called him and told him that. Something made him want to change after that. and about a month and a half later he called me and we hooked up exactly one month after that. and today is Our one month. All I have to say is be there for him and listen to his problems when he wants to talk but at the same time give him some space. Don`t seem to pushy and show him that you care and don`t give up!!!!!!!!!!!!! especially if you think he is the "ONE!"
2007-02-14 13:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seem like the five months that you were apart didn't help. When you two finally spoke again a month ago. he was testing to see had you grown any. Once you started talking he realize you hadn't. If you have a chance to talk to him again, pretend like you move on to better things that keep you busy. talk as little as possible. That mean making your conversation very short. Lie. say something like you meet someone else. but maybe you and he can kick it now and then. This will make him start to think about you more often.
2007-02-14 13:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by wolf in sheep cloths 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should prove to him that you aren't immature, write him a heart felt letter and ask him to go to some interesting places with you. If he still wont respond then he is probably the one who wants to end the relationship but is just blaming you as an easy way to get out of it, which is spineless
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2007-02-14 13:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you move on and find sombody more your speed. If after 5 months he still singing the same song obviously he moved on.So do the same,there's plenty of people out there don't beg for someone's attention that don't want to give you the time of day. Good luck
2007-02-14 13:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've had no contact for a long period of time. When you talked again, you didn't mention any hint that there were sparks there or any real interest on his part.
I wish I could give you some words of encouragement, but it really sounds like the relationship is over. I'm sorry.
2007-02-14 13:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Gaga Warlock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you he is not serious and he was immature and it was his fault and tried to apolize and didn't want to listen to you...Time goes bye and one once he talked to you and said I don't want to hear "this" anymore ...
Your a beautiful person and should know that and don't go there with him.
Your life is more important and I think that your Young and Mature.
2007-02-14 13:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by sandras77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way, but grow up, I can tell by your grammar how immature you are. No offense to you. Show him how mature you are. Call him and tell him you're willing to start off fresh if he's going to do his part as well.
2007-02-14 13:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has moved on you should too...start seeing other people and then after that still see if you still have those feelings.....If you do then make him listen and tell him how you feel....don't cry just tell him the honest truth and be strong...because there is life before them there is life after them.....
2007-02-14 13:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋