what to do! people with experiance plz help! infact anyone help!
2007-02-14 13:08:12 · 20 answers · asked by london6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on how long you two have been together. listen to me i speak from experiance.
when i was 14 me and my girlfriend had been together 6 months and we though we were ready. so we did and it was a big mistake. we realized after it was too late that we wernt ready. over a year and a half later when i was 16 we had been together about 2 years and decided again we were ready. but at that point we had been together so long (and done prety much every other sexual act under the sun short of intercourse) we decided we should because it was just the next step in our relationship (ha ha ha we did it on her older sisters couch!!)
but if you two havent been together for long then i woulnd jump strait to sex. fool around some. it may sound obscene (but hey look at who is answering) but you should start out with maybe just fingering her and possibly oral sex. i know i enjoyed playing with here **** and fingering her then going muff diving. and after a while of that then maybe you can think about sex.
take it slow if you want the relationship to last.
2007-02-14 13:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No. You're 15. It's illegal in most countries. But that's not the point.
Personally, I think it will be a bad choice. I lost my viginity a few months before my 17th, and now I feel like even that was a little too young.
I have a 15 year old brother, and I think he's just started having sex. My parents are ot thrilled with his behaviour at all, and it's worse for his girlfriend.
If you two love each other, there will be other oppurtunities in the future. Wait a couple of years, then see how you feel.
It's good that you're asking people though, it shows you have a little bit of maturity when it comes to this, and it also shows that maybe you don't really think you're ready for it.
2007-02-14 21:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by actor_girl_1986 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course your body is ready but have you thought about the consequences mentally? Like in the long run? Having sex at such a young age is not a good choice. Period. I don't care how long you two been together. Refrain from having sex. Do something else to get rid of that excess energy. Your just too young. Be strong.
2007-02-14 21:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a few years. It's a lot to deal with emotionally, in addition to the risk of getting her pregnant. Sex will always be there for you. If you have a kid at 16, you're sex life will not extend very far into the future.
2007-02-14 21:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ALL guys are ALWAYS thinking that they are "ready" to have sex. At 15, I assure you that you are NOT "ready" for what sex may produce for you and your parents. Keep your pants zipped and your feet on the floor. Adulthood will be upon you soon enough.
2007-02-14 21:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question on here, you're not ready. I would suggest talking to a trusted adult, either a relative in your family, a school nurse or counselor.
2007-02-14 21:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO!
Please wait.
Just because you are old enough to have the physical desire doesn't mean you are ready for the emotional impact.
Don't underestimate it.
It's huge.. for both of you.
2007-02-14 22:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by pa_browneyedgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you support a baby? If you have to ask online, I don't think your ready.
2007-02-14 21:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
save it!!! you two aren't even of legal adult age... btw, it's better to save it for the person you will marry in the future... right now, it's better to concentrate on your studies and not get side-tracked... you aren't ready to be a parent and you definitely aren't ready for responsibility... please WAIT a few more years... it's just sensible and practical...
2007-02-14 21:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is serious stuff think about what you are doing and don't jump-in with out giving it serious thought .. If you do be sure to ware a condom to be safe....
2007-02-14 21:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by ralphtheartist 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋