ok so me and my boyfriend are brand new i mean he asked me out today but we were best friends be4 and it was hard enough to make conversation then!! i really like him but i dont know what to say to him im afraid that if i dont do something quick he will think im boring and he will dump me and i do NOT! want that to happen so plz what should i do?
2007-02-14 13:07:36 · 5 answers · asked by coolness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said his last gf didnt feel right and i really want him to feel right around me what should i do?
2007-02-14 13:22:16 · update #1
talk about:
movies
food
clothes
vacation
places him
yourself
where u wanna go in the future
if this silence continues, maybe u guys werent meant to be
because if u guys were, conversations should be natural, though it is quite awkward in the beginning.
maybe u guys arent talking cuz u guys are both totally shy.
find out, if u really like him take a chance because u would have missed out on someone wonderful.
good luck!!!
2007-02-14 13:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by loveithateit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi nicely..you shouldnt stay with everybody purely because you sense sorry for them, for that you will be a chum. acquaintances pay interest and if the placement is amazingly complicated you ought to continually verify with an individual and seem for help for that individual. At 14 perchance you'd be happier having a set of acquaintances, going to the films and taking section in the advantages of having a social existence somewhat than being with one individual. there'll be more than a number of tiimes for bf relationships in a while. you could go back his present and clarify that you somewhat be a chum and not in any respect dropping as a chum purely because it didnt exercising uncomplicated between you 2. If he won't be able to comprehend this then perchance you're more beneficial efficient off with out his friendship. i'm speaking from journey :) wish this helps Elisa
2016-11-28 03:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a situation like this a few years ago. it's hard, i know! but honestly, the easiest thing to do is to just bring up the "awkward silence." let him know that he's not the only one feeling uncomfortable. it will actually make things less awkward by bringing it up, trust me! you can ask him what he thinks you guys could do to make the communication between you two work better. guys like to fix things, and this will give him the chance to help fix this issue.
and you can always ask him a lot of random questions. ask him questions about something that he knows a lot about.
2007-02-14 13:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that he needs to get a grip on Life. Gals aren't suppose to be talkative. Your Beauty should be all the words, he needs to hear. Let your Eyes, tell him to back off. Grow up. And treat you with some respect! Starting right now!
2007-02-14 13:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
watch sportscenter i bet you will have something to talk about then. He is probably worrying about the same thing dont worry to much. Try to learn what he is interested in.
2007-02-14 13:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by Half-pint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋