does the lack of passion mean you should call off a relationship, even if the guy wants to take care of you and your children, buy you a house etc., stood by you through 3 years of hell.(somewhat).
his kiss actually repulses me now. it's like how kissing a brother would feel. my intuition says move on but my brain says "are you a fool" i could settle comfortablly with this man, have my lake house. but i need to know that there can still be a deep meaning relationship filled with passion as i approach my mid thirties. if there is then i am making the right choice by letting this man go
2007-02-14 13:07:23 · 3 answers · asked by l3s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If kissing him repulses you then listen to that part of your brain and not the "he can save us" part of your brain. It's unfair to him and to you and your kids to enter into a relationship that you know isn't whole and honest from jump. I broke up with the person that I started feeling that way about. It was hard because we had been together for four years but it would have been worse raising kids with someone I didn't want to touch me, well and having the kids would have sucked too lol. I am madly in love now with the right man that wants to do all the same things the wrong man wanted to do back then. You can do better and more importantly you owe it to yourself to do better.
2007-02-14 13:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is true love the YES butterflies do exist...I have been with my husband for 3 1/2 years now and it still feels like I have just meet him.
2007-02-14 21:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should hang on to him... all of those lust feelings fade and that's when you know you have real love or not...
http://www.womensmedia.com/relationships-love-stages.htm
2007-02-14 21:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋