ok well u know the guy that iv'e been asking about lately!? well i asked him who his valentine was and he said this girl at his school! and the last question that i had, what i meant by flirting was that he hugs me and pokes me and hits me (playfully, not hard at all)! and iv'e known him for about 3 1/2 years now, he is 15 and i'm 13! but i'm just not sure b/c for awhile i was really convinced that he did like me but ever since i asked him that i just can't stop thinking about it!!!!! HELP ME, DEAR GOD!
2007-02-14 13:06:46 · 16 answers · asked by aviator 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...and this too shall pass...
That's what my dad used to tell me. You know what, he was right!
Take it easy on yourself. Being 13, you're going to date a LOT of boys. If he is "the" guy, it will happen. Give him (and you) time and space. Look at other guys (which I KNOW is not easy). If it's right, it will happen sooner or later (the later part sucks!).
Just remember, in a couple of years (or whatever) this will be only one day/week/month of a lot of years. Just take it easy on yourself.
Good luck!
2007-02-14 13:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by mhcgjl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well too young to have boys on your mind anyway, second of all if someone else is his Valentine, why would you even give this guy a second thought, it's pretty obvious that he doesn't want to be with you, or he would have asked you. He wants a girl his own age, and you're wasting your own time being hung up on him when you should be doing your schoolwork. Not to mention there are millions of guys out there and you're stuck on one who could care less about you other than wanting your friendship. Good luck sweetie.
2007-02-14 21:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know about that! There is a guy at my school and I like him and I asked him if he liked one of my friends and this is the part that made me sad lol he said " No. In fact I don't like anyone in this classroom, better yet this school, so no!" then I asked him "Well, then who do you like, you've GOT to like someone!" then he said "Okay, I liked this one girl at my old school, but I am not going to tell you because you might know her." so that is what made me sad. I thought he liked me, but I guess not. So much for being a Valentine... well, this boy, I think he might like you. But ask him if you could ever be his valentine, or is it too late? Just ask him! Well, I hope this works for you! Best of luck! It's happened to me before and the guy I'm talking about does that to me except he only pokes me and hits me and hurts me... but he does that to all the girls. Well I hope this helps anyway! Good Luck! Remember it happens to all girls!
Lotsa Love,
XxXKaylieXxX
2007-02-14 21:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sleepover Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best you find another guy to be the one and try forget about him, he is playing you. Thing is if you ignore him and he does really like you then HE will chase YOU and then you will know his true feelings. If he does not chase you then he has saved you the hurt in the long run by you not looking "silly"in front of your friends, for want of a better word.
Don't be hard on yourself, there are plenty of fish in the sea :)
2007-02-14 21:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by caz_v8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he told you someone else is his valentine, he's not into you in that way. I'm sure he really likes you a lot as a friend. Just move on to some boy your own age. You will be much happier if you do.
2007-02-14 21:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Goddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he says he already has a Valentine, then leave him alone! Not to be rude, but that's a significant age difference!
2007-02-14 21:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by The PUNK Goddesssss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your too young to worry about this,but i you to know my opinion sounds like he does, just because he said he has a valentine doesn't mean he really does or maybe he does but it doesn't necessarily mean anything
2007-02-14 21:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl! Get a grip! Of course he likes you or he wouln't pay any attenion to you at all.
2007-02-14 21:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Fireman T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm he prob likes u as a friend and he doesnt want n e thing more because of the age difference.
2007-02-14 21:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by JAKILLA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm...ur a little young ......but maybe he does or maybe this is a sign that u need to move on....he is older so there is probabky an older gurl......but who knows........id say forget get him and move on to something better!!!!
2007-02-14 21:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋