My girlfriend and I have been having sex for over a year now. We exchanged gifts today (V-Day), went to dinner, came back layed in bed. She was being kind of cold, so I massaged her back while we laid together. And no sex. Isn't kind of expected to happen??
2007-02-14 13:06:07 · 11 answers · asked by Matt S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she is on her period or not feeling well.
2007-02-14 13:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On one hand Valentines day is kinda nookie day for those who are sexually active, however on the other hand...
Think of it this way, she's so comfortable with you she doesn't feel she has to perform to express her love and affection, it could be a lot of factors, could be her period, could be a bad day at work and she was frustrated. Could be something on her mind she doesn't want to discuss right now. I wouldn't get too worried.
If you are really bothered by it I'd ask her, would you have preferred bad sex she wasn't into just to please you over good passionate sex you both were wanting? Just curious.
2007-02-14 21:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Will B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trouble is brewing, sorry to tell you. She is in to someone else and/or not into you any more. It's very simple. (If she was on her period or whatever, she would have said that. The fact that she was acting "cold" is a hint.
Maybe one last thing is possible...did you somehow screw up Valentines Day, not meet her expecations somehow?
2007-02-14 21:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Been around a long time... 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very unusual. V-day is the perfect day for that. Maybe she wasn't feeling good or just not in the mood. It does happen sometimes.
2007-02-14 21:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's no rule that you need to have sex during valentines day. if she doesn't feel like doing it then it's ok. you can do it every other day after valentines anyway.
2007-02-14 21:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like it's almost over for you. Especially if she was cold. Anything on her mind that really is bothering her? Does she want to be engaged?
2007-02-14 21:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by katt18466 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, Valentine's day sex is pretty much a given. Maybe you should have done something oral.
2007-02-14 21:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why does it have to mean anything. People have off days, if it bothers you so much ask her.
2007-02-14 21:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it should never be expected. there could be many reasons she didn't want to, including she might be having her period. Get overit and stop being paranoid.
2007-02-14 21:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it does not need to just happen
2007-02-14 21:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋