If ur bf is mad about stupid stuff and he really doesn’t want to talk to u at this moment and u ask him to call u later when he fell like it, and he will say may be I will call u later but I need time to think about this, and if he doesn’t call u at all tonight would u try to call him or would u just sleep tonight and call him tomorrow morning and say happy b-day?? Ladies please be honest and answer my q I need help
2007-02-14 13:01:17 · 21 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his b-day is feb.15
2007-02-14 13:02:25 · update #1
It's hard, it sux, it's not ez....however guys are different then we are and when they say they don't want to talk at the moment they mean it. He'll get more annoyed if you call him especially since he's already said he doesn't want to talk. As hard as it may be, just go to sleep tonight. Whatever you usual routine is tomorrow go about it, but don't call him, I know it's his bday but give him his space. You can always send him a text message, it's not as personal but at least he knows you didn't forget.
2007-02-14 13:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by babeebluez73 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't call him at all, if he's pissed off and said he needs to think let him think. When he's done thinking he'll call you, he's the one who ended the conversation so he should be the one to call. If he doesn't care that his birthday is the next day, then that's his problem. Be considerate though, if you love him, and just call him and leave him a message saying happy birthday if he doesn't answer. Then if he doesn't return you're call tomorrow then I would break up with him, he may need time to think but to leave you hanging shows how inconsiderate he is. Good luck sweetie.
2007-02-14 21:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I would call him back. I mean even when my man isn't mad at me, when he doesn't call me I call him. I call to see why haven't call me, I mean at times I think he has some stupid reasons but I don't say anything. Of course if I know I was most defintely in the wrong I'm going to apologized and tell him how much I love him. If you want it to work out you need to call him and not wait till tomorrow morning and call him because he might be even more upset that you waited till the nxt day and called. Call him and try to work out ya'll problems. Besides it is valentine day
2007-02-14 21:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by vanessa k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a rest until tomorrow. Most guys aren't known for their great communication abilities. Whatever is bothering him isn't going to improve by you pushing the issue. Just wait until the morning, call and wish him a Happy Birthday, and move on. When he's ready to talk, he will.
2007-02-14 21:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by SuzeY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call him for 2 days, it seems as if he didn't want to buy you a gift or he didn't want to be romantic today. don't call him on his bday because today was a day for you and he was selfish and couldn't put his anger aside, which is petty. then call him on Friday and act as if nothing is wrong... your even. He wanted a way to make you mad and he knew that today would have the biggest impact on you, guys are childish at times. unless you gave him a real good reason to be so mad at you on valentines day? Also don't be so mad you know how you like for your guy to keep calling you when your mad at him, maybe thats what he wants from you.
2007-02-14 21:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by tired22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call him this evening giving him some space once he needs to think about all this, and just would call the next morning and say happy b-day. But that's all, I wouldn't say anything else untill he starts to speak up first about the issue.
2007-02-14 21:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Wannaknow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Men are like elastic bands" - or something like that, according to the Venus & Mars book.
My take on it is this: give him some space. Maybe he needs to cool off or has other issues that he can't or doesn't want to talk to you about. Sleep on it, talk to him in the morning - see how he acts. If he's still acting like a doofus, ask him what's going on - if he's mean then just tell him to call you when he grows up. No point in wasting your time on someone with a major chip on his shoulder.
2007-02-14 21:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him - give him the "Space" he needs to think - and you should use the time to think also - is he the one? Is he worth the time and energy? Do you really want to be involved with someone who gets mad over stupid stuff? Communication is the most important ingredient in a relationship....without it, there is no foundation.
2007-02-14 21:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by LMMMD 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would go to sleep tonight and call him tomorrow afternoon if you haven't heard from him first. If he doesn't anser the phone leave a message for him telling him Happy Birthday. Then he knows that you remember and that you care. From there the ball is in his court.
2007-02-14 21:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Evie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just call him before the day is over and do call him tomorrow to greet his birthday. He's just not in the mood, give him time and little space for himself. Everything will be better when he's okay and maybe he would appreciate you for being understanding. Relax, call him later...
2007-02-14 21:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by finding_answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋