So there was this boy that i liked, and i went out with some friends and he seemed to kinda like me, he was talking with me and like walking next to me the whole night. At school he like totally ignore me, so i like made myself get over him. But me and my friend were supposed to meet him to get something to eat and he didnt show. i was kinda mad, but then he called my friend to tell her he was sorry for not meeting me! so then i was like okay. but at school he wont talk with me. plus, he talks to like all the girls at school. so i dont get him. I am having him over with some friends for a movie soon. should i go for him or just be friends, if he will let that?? i dont usually have boy drama but i thought this situation was really random!! plz help me with a little advice..thankies
2007-02-14 12:58:19 · 12 answers · asked by divalious0124 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he isn't going to talk to you want is the point of going out? plus just go to him and say will you go otu with me ! If it is yes than yes! iof it no the get over it!
2007-02-14 13:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not random, he's just a jerk. Thankies is a whole different matter. Anyway you had it right the first time to move on, at least you and you're friend hopefully had a good time. This shows that maybe he's ashamed of liking you or afraid of what his friends may say. Guys like this are very influential and worth less than the trouble and heartache he'll cause. So don't even waste your breath trying to say anything to him. Leave him alone and move on, trust me it's for the best. Good luck sweetie!
2007-02-14 13:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cant talk to you in school while he's around other people, that seems odd. If he was really into you, he wouldnt talk to other girls instead of you, unless he's talking to them ABOUT you, which may mean that he's shy to talk to you directly. When he comes over for the movie, ask him to straight out tell you what he wants. If he doesnt know, then just be friends.
2007-02-14 13:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by translucent_spyder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a straight girl and I've never had a crush on another girl soo.... Probably some jealousy comes into play.
2016-05-24 00:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys worry about thier reputaions a lot. So if that means loving you out of school that means he's not going to love you in school. Just become more of a flirt, maybe you'll win him over.
2007-02-14 13:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Maddie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be all like "omg i love you" but dont be like "i dont like you" keep it in the middle and just observe him. If he doesnt talk to u at school maybe he doesnt like u and just wants a fling, or maybe he does like u but is too shy to come up to you and just start talking. If u like him, then wait for things, and even if u decide to just be friends, why tell him that? what if he really likes u?
2007-02-14 13:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had somewhat of the same situation a while back.
What I learned, finally is that if he likes you, he would have made more effort to talk to you.
Therefore, don't ask him out, save yourself the humiliation.
Or, ask him out, and see if he feels the same.
2007-02-14 13:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending what YOU want to do.
When he comes over... i mean IF he comes over ask him why is it at school he ignores you but when we are not in school you notice me? whats up with that.
Be blunt and just come out and ask him, watch his eyes, they will let you know if he is telling the truth, If you have any doubts about his answer, kick him to the curb and just be friends.
2007-02-14 13:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by kevferg64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre wasting your precious time with him, get over him and try to find a nice guy that will prioritize you.
2007-02-14 13:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over that B**tard!!!! He's a retard!!!!
2007-02-14 13:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Packer Fan 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋