we both have had our problems and at this time we are single but have been trying to work things out and for v-day i decided to make a nice dinner for her and have some wine and a movie and that nice stuff. this other guy wanted to take her out to dinner and he likes her basically he has been all over her since we split up trying to get with her but she still goes out to dinner with him and yaks it up on the phone while i drive her around ( i bite my tounge since im not in a relationship with her ) but after tonight and things she says i need to find a way out of this relationship but i love her to death really no matter what. any ideas what i can do.
2007-02-14 12:54:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over her ! There's still many girls out there who would love you as you are with all she is and who would treat you much more nicely.
Let her go, and let yourself free, forgetting is not easy, but as they say, time heals every wound, let it be.
Get a new hobby, in sports maybe or just keep yourself busy all the time - but not too busy you have no time for yourself! Just to avoid calling her again.
2007-02-14 13:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is any easy way out. If you love someone with all your heart you will always care for them. I understand where you are coming from because im going through the samething now. Its not easy watching the girl you care about doing things without you or even just moving on but pulling you for the ride. Im like you i wanna be with her too. Dude time heals all wounds but cut it off alittle at a time and you should do fine. You never know you two can become great friends.
2007-02-14 21:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know getting over someone hurts... but the only way you gonna get over her is by moving on.... find someone or something else to focus your mind too.... the more time you spend with her, the more you are going to want to be with her.... but honestly, as a gurl, the reason she yaks it up in front of you is to show off to you... but trust me, if you did it in front of her, it would hurt her... she still likes you, or else she wouldnt spend ANY time with you... what you need to do is sit down with her and ask her if she honestly thinks that things will ever work out between you two... you cant keep holding on to something that will never be...
2007-02-14 21:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by ~ * ~713PR!NC3$$713~ * ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her how you feel. You should find out exactly how she feels about you. If she tells you there is no chance of y'all being together stop trying to get back with her and let her go. It might be hard but if shes after someone eles theres not much eles you can do.
2007-02-14 21:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by Simple Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told her you were making dinner for the both of you, and she ask you to drive her to her date, thats just ****** up, she shouldnt use you or play with your heart, if you really care for her talk to her and this "releationship"
2007-02-14 20:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she not going to be a one u want to spend a life with is she worth it?
2007-02-14 20:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by rockinweazel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no remedy for heartbreak, the most we can do is give it time. Just don't keep expecting her to show you that she cares.
2007-02-14 21:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Rob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out find a nicer one.
2007-02-14 20:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date someone else
2007-02-14 20:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋