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Hi, I have this new coworker started working about 4 months ago, I asked her out twice, but she refused,, since then I just flirt with her and we talk like as a colleague..
She has been dating a guy... so I thought she will get flowers from him... All girl got flowers today... she did not..
Then I heard she talking to another girl, it seem the guy (one she was dating) brooked with her? today (I guess she had plan to go out with him for dinner, he cancelled it) and she seem very upset, calling guys immature... then when she left the wrok quite upset,, I asked she want me to send her flowers, she said she will be alright.. Then I called a local store and send her flowers at her home address. Though I told the store to send as anonymous, but she most likely guess that I send the flowers. What most girls think about it? Sweet thing or stalker? Can she complaint about me to boss. Can she will freak out, how i got her home address( i got from her CV, we all get new worker cv)

2007-02-14 12:51:24 · 5 answers · asked by mopugh s 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

5 answers

You asked this before!

I must say, sending the flowers to her home I think is a little much. I think that's maybe a little stalker-ish.

Still, girls love flowers. Who knows.

2007-02-14 12:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0 0

That's a very sweet sentiment - but

1. That's a misuse of company information.
2. She said no. So basically you should consider that that's essentially could be sexual harassment.
3. If her boyfriend has any clue, he'll claim that he did in fact send the flowers and you are - again/still - out of the picture.

Search youtube for sexual harrassment and you get the idea - if you search under comedy - it's funny and actually alot closer to the truth.

2007-02-14 13:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mark T 7 · 0 0

Sorry yet stalker...if she stated no the first 2 situations - she's no longer into you. No i do not imagine you may get in problem unles you completely pester her each and every of the time. yet pass on and go away her on my own

2016-11-03 11:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

She will think it is sweet but if she isn't interested in you it won't change anything.

2007-02-14 12:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by LDR02 2 · 1 0

I think you should cool it for a while and see if she comes around.

2007-02-14 12:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 2 0

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