The guy I am seeing told me he would come over for Valentines Day so we could spend the evening together.
I waited until 11pm, and phoned him but he didn't answer. So I sent him a text asking him where he was, and he didn't reply.
I rang him for the last time at 12am and he didn't pick up again...as i'm writing this it is nearly 2am and I haven't heard anything.
I know he's ignoring me, but I don't know why. And I know he's going to phone me in the next few days but should I forgive him?
He's done this before but a long time ago,and this time it really upset me, this was our first valentines day together...what should I do?
2007-02-14 12:51:22 · 19 answers · asked by THT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO - this is completely unforgivable. I think valentines day is over commercialised nonsense but the important thing is, he didn't respect you, the promise he made you or your feelings.
No man is worth sitting up at night worrying about, he's shown a complete lack of respect or care for you. And I bet you have no idea what he's up to or who he's with, do you?
This man is just plain rude and doesn't deserve another minute of your time wasting worrying about him
2007-02-14 12:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you want to catch the next bus out of there. He is playimg games with you, and clearly doesnt care about your feelings. Even if some major problem had occured a quick text or call to say he couldnt make it would have been easy. He has you dangeling on a piece of string, and you deserve better than that, cut that string and get yourself out of there. Find someone who will give you the respect and love you deserve.
2007-02-14 20:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first find out what happened. Its the only sensible mature thing to do. And dont get angry...be as calm as possible.
Its only after he has given me his reason that I would make my decision. If I thought he wasnt being genuine i would walk out. If I have any doubts, I would ask for a break. If he had a genuine reason, I would give him another chance.
But all the same, I think it was disrespectful for him not to call you at all whatever the case. A nice break would have been in store for him from me...just to wake him up.
p.s: Sorry about your day!!
2007-02-14 13:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by tchickiedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy and being with the girl I love on valentines day would be so important to me. I would not forgive him and to be honest ive got a feeling he is with another woman or girl.
Have a think follow your heart do what you feel is best.
Happy Belated Valentines Day -------}----}-----@
2007-02-14 12:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Robert G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Realize that you deserve respect and he's not respecting you enough to call when he says he'll call or come see you when he says he will People who don't do what they say they will do aren't worth the time of day--unless you like being blown off and disrespected. We teach people how to treat us and he needs to learn a lesson. Teach him that lesson. It's not about forgiving him or not forgiving him. It's about requiring that he respect you.
2007-02-14 13:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive him. he hasn't really done anything wrong. when u speak to him, find out why he didn't call u to let u know what is happening. let him know that u were upset. u can spend other evenings together. if he doesn't care how u feel, move on.
2007-02-15 00:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat like as like...are you always there when he wants you if so don't be there always...should you forgive him, what has done other than not answered text/phone calls...do you think he is spending this time with someone else...if he is dump him now girl!
2007-02-14 13:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by Molly B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nearly all men are crap when it comes to valentines day ull have to used put up with it or nag ( which doesn't work by the way been doing it for 6yrs now)
2007-02-14 12:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naaaa, don't phone him again and wait until he calls then just start laughing and put the phone down, let him do the chasing! don't do your own brain in, you are worth more than that.
2007-02-14 13:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Lysa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obviously a waste of time and effort,especially if he's done it b4.if u let him treat u this way he'll continue 2 push the boundaries.find sum1 who'll move mountains 4u,i would 4 my wife
2007-02-14 13:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋