how can i get my bestfriend to like me. i love her but she has once said she only sees me as a friend. she also said that about 2 of my other friends who she began to like. she has also liked me a few years back but now i just cant see to get her attraction, and it kills me because i love her. What can i do, to "help" her notice i can be her next boyfriend and not just her bestfriend. she also tells me how her and her ex acted like best friends when they hung out and how much she liked that. Why cant she just relize whats right under her nose??!!! please help me win her over.
2007-02-14 12:43:02 · 6 answers · asked by ampedaboutit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she just wants to be friends, you should respect that. Trust me, if she only sees you as friend, that's all she sees you as.
I know this because it has happened to me before. One of my best guys friends use to like me. It totally ruined our friendship. After he admitted his feelings to me, everything between us just got all awkward. Don't let this happen to you. Friendship is more important. :]
2007-02-14 12:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my friends is in the same situation but my friend, is the girl, just happens to not like the idea of being in a relationship at all at this time. Don't push her away because you feel like you're too much of a friend. Just continue supporting her no matter what her choices are.
2007-02-14 12:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sagira Tadashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could play games etc. but the best plan is just to be honest with her and tell you how you feel...otherwise you will continue to be stuck in a situation that is breaking your heart. if she is smart she will see that falling in love with your best friend is the best of all possible worlds. if she turns you down, plenty of other girls would love to meet a nice guy, don't pine for something that won't happen. good luck!
2007-02-14 12:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by she's_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not make anyone want to be with you unless they want to. Focus instead on your friendship with her. If she wants to take things to the neXt level she will ask you. If it hasn't crossed her mind then she probably just wants to be "platonic friends". Move on and find someone who is hot for you! There's tons of fish in the sea.
2007-02-14 13:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not want to be in a relationship because she treasures your friendship, and once your past the friendship stage there are possibilities of getting hurt. you have to just talk it over thats the best advice i can give.
2007-02-14 12:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seduce her
2007-02-14 12:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by US 3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋