Does anyone know of a drug or herb to make me sad, to help me cry so I will feel better.?

Question

I had a lose recently, but cant seem to cry, and I know I need to release the tears but cant because I keep stopping myself, I know if I carry on like this it will make me ill, so if anyone knows of a drug or herb preferably to make me feel sad it would really help.

Answer 1

I'm sorry to hear about your lose, it is hard for some people to cry, it will come in time, don't feel guilty for not crying, as it is not a controllable emotion,
I have never heard of anything that you can take to make you cry, (but I'm not saying there isn't)
I have to take tablets to help me stop crying, i could be talking to someone and my eyes will start tearing up for no reason, it embarrassing
I hope you manage to deal with your grief, and when you feel the need to cry do dont hold back
All the best Dekker

Answer 2

I went through that recently, couldn't cry for over 7 months after splitting up with my ex (I left him) after which i went on shamefull drinking and innapropriate behaviour. I think i knew all i was doing was wrong but was rather lost... One day I finally burst into tears as my mind decided to unblock my emotions therefore identifying why I had been behaving like that, it was a consequence to my decision for splitting up with my boyfriend for the reasons I did so, the guilt etc. From then on I changed my behaviour and believe I am a better person for it now. So it seems like your mind is blocking some issues... perhaps councelling would help or talk to a friend you trust and will listen to you in the true meaning of the word, because this situation can take a long time to overcome. Good luck : )

Answer 3

I had alot of terrible things happen to me 9 years ago,I cried for 3 months,I woke up crying,ate crying,I was lucky to stop for 10 min.I would cry so hard I would gag and vomit,I couldn't work,when I could sleep I'd go to sleep crying.No medication was helping I was broken,my heart hurt so bad I thought it was going to literally kill me, I think in a sense it finally did because after crying out to God to kill me the pain suddenly stopped,i stopped crying then I was numb. I stayed that way for a couple of years,I couldn't cry for a long time,I felt dead.Jesus took care of me thru it all and healed me of my wounds.I still hurt sometimes but I am strong now.The bible says God draws near to the broken hearted,don't blame him.Things will get better.

Answer 4

No, there is no drug that will do that. the best thing you can do is find your best friend and talk to them about it, or find a tearful friend.sometimes just the sight of someone else's tears helps you let go. Perhaps you just aren't going to cry over this one for a while yet because you still have too much to do.

Answer 5

I'm so sorry. I went through that once too. I don't know of anything that really helps. I guess time helped me. Watch a really sad movie that you know will make you cry maybe.

Answer 6

Nothing will make you cry like you want to, you just have to let go. It took me a long time after my loss, but it will come with time, when you are ready, and it will feel better I promise. Good luck.

Answer 7

The best known preparation for this type of condition is a thing called TIME !, and it is free, be patient and kind to yourself.

Answer 8

rather than taking something try music. listen to old tige by Jim reeves. i know its a really old song but it is also very sad. i am sure there are loads of people that would recommend some other sad songs for you

Answer 9

watch a really sad movie that always does it for me

Answer 10

(a) Stop gambling (How much did you "lose"?)

(b) Try 14 large vodka & cokes