2007-02-14 12:15:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On a scale of 1-10 (10 being very important) looks rate about a 5. If we were all to be honest at the end of the day, looks do matter to an extent. I couldn't be romanticlly involved with someone that I found to be hidious. But there are very few people that I have ever found to be that bad looking. The most important thing is personality. That's the real magic. Personality has the power of transforming the least attractive person into a prince and to transform the hottest person on earth into a filthy Mc Nasty.
Money, also not so important. The only thing about money is this. I don't want to be with somebody who has no ambition. If someone refuses to work because he is too lazy I want nothing to do with that. I find that very selfish. But so long as a person is doing the best that he can with what he has then I respect that regardless of the income. On the other end of that I also want to be able to spend time with my man. My husband works three jobs and refuses to take any time off for any reason. That really hurts my feelings and I feel like he is not only disregarding my needs but he is also disregarding my daughters needs as well. I would rather he just work one job 40 hours a week and live in a small house and just get by so that I can spend some time with the man I love.
Hope that helps.
2007-02-14 12:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is not important because I can support myself and have been for awhile. Looks are only important at a first glance, but mean nothing in the long run because it's the person's soul I have to stay with. I believe a sense of humor and a kind soul are the most important.
2007-02-14 12:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by snowy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger it was all about looks and when your young and in lust money really doesn't matter to most. As I grew older some of the guys that I thought were not good looking at all but through the years I came to know them better and realized that they were pretty hot, because who you are inside really does reflect on the outside. Money shouldn't matter at all but as you grow older there is more of a need to feel secure so you like to know that the person you are with and may be with for the rest of your life has a nest egg as many older working women have their nest egg. They don't want to be the only one in the relationship with all the eggs!
2007-02-14 12:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Laura S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money not as important than him being a good guy
Looks not that important, Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder!
2007-02-14 12:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no matter how much someone says money means nothing, it does. Who would want to date a guy who lives in a box and can't afford his own meals? Not me =/ It's really not super important or anything, but if I plan on being in a relationship with this guy, I would want to know that he is able to support himself financially.
2016-05-24 00:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest everyone wants a great looking partner
and money it not everything but it sure helps alot when you dont have to struggle for money and worry about the bills.
In saying all that my current partner is great looking but has no money, my previous partner was average looking and had a bit of money and neither was better than the other.
2007-02-14 12:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by mel_leno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money's not all that important, looks are mostly good. Personality is the most important thing, and a sense of humor.
2007-02-14 12:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for me..i dont really care if hes got a 6 pack and is rich or not..i would go out with an over weight and not rich guy for his personality. It doesnt matter how hot u r because u can still be a jerk. And now a days most hot guys are indeed jerks because they think since all the girls like them theyre so cool and they end up cheating on their girl friends..they get all caught up in the popular thing..if u go with a guy whose not like that..chances are he will be a good boy friend. So to answer your question..personality is what really counts. Its fun to stare at a hot body..but i would never dream about going out with one of those type of guys.
2007-02-14 12:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ohkay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, looks are somewhat important I would not be attracted to a frankenstein but its all about the inside for me... hard working loving, faithful good man... Money is not a big thing for me as long as he has a job and has some sense of family...
2007-02-14 12:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by vicki m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks dont count, but it depends on what you like, and money.. not important either, but its good to have steady job and be stable and be able to pay your bills and have some extras that you need or want..
ive found out, the more money you have, the more people want to be your friend, when you dont have it, they want nothing to do with you.. to me, money is the root of evil..
2007-02-14 12:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋