Hi, I have this new coworker started working about 4 months ago, I asked her out twice, but she refused,, since then I just flirt with her and we talk like as a colleague..
She has been dating a guy... so I thought she will get flowers from him... All girl got flowers today... she did not..
Then I heard she talking to another girl, it seem the guy (one she was dating) brooked with her? today (I guess she had plan to go out with him for dinner, he cancelled it) and she seem very upset, calling guys immature... then when she left the wrok quite upset,, I asked she want me to send her flowers, she said she will be alright.. Then I called a local store and send her flowers at her home address. Though I told the store to send as anonymous, but she most likely guess that I send the flowers. What most girls think about it? Sweet thing or stalker? Can she complaint about me to boss. Can she will freak out, how i got her home address( i got from her CV. we all get cv of all new coworker..
2007-02-14 12:15:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww... thats kinda sweet. just explain to her about her CV. and tell her you like her... good luck!!!!!
2007-02-14 12:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My head hurts from reading your question man. But if she just broke up with her BF , give her time. She might think those flowers you sent where from her ex and she might try to get him back. It was a dumb move. But if she ask if you sent her flowers tomorrow denie it ok.. this can get you in big trouble if she tells the boss you are stalker her when she said to back off.
I know that you maybe in love with her man. But you just got to move on. She doesn't want you.. and well most girls will find this sweet , a guy just broke her heart and shes probably not in the mood for another guy.
Hope i could help.
2007-02-14 12:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you did something really nice but really stupid... i don't want to be rude look at this points you just wrote...
she didn't recieve roses and you asked if she would like to recieve some from you... what were you thinking!!!! you should have just sent her the flowers this would be 100 points for you!!! and another you sent anonymous!! she'll first think it will be from the guy she broke up with!!! she won't think you sent them!!!
Tell her when you see her if she liked the flower!!! Do it NOW!!!!!
This would give you the chance to be with her yet!!!
You're future is at stake here! Do it and do it quick!!!
May the mojo be with you!!! ^_^
2007-02-14 12:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you breached her privacy by using company records (her address) for your own gain. Be concerned about being fired for that.
If I were her and you admitted to sending things to my home address, I'd tell the boss and file a complaint. You asked her out twice, she said No. You asked if she wanted flower from you, she said No.
It's starting to sound like harassment.
2007-02-14 12:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you meant well and it is sweet. It is starting to borderline stalking though. Just leave it alone at this point. If she stays broken up with the bf then in a month or two even, try to arrange a happy hour with all your co-workers and make sure she gets te invite. If she goes to the happy hour and she is relaxed enough, go dance with her or sit next to her and buy her a drink. That way, the pressure is off. If she is interested in you, she will recipricate then. If she doesn't, just back off and stay there.
Good Luck!
2007-02-14 12:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very romantic. You are only trying to help her cope with her breakup. Since no one is sending her flowers today, you did the favor for her, and made her feel loved. I'm sure she really appreciates it. Sending her flowers was a kind, sponateous, and caring move. I don;t think she'll ever think of it as stalker
2007-02-14 12:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I hope you speak with less mistakes then when you write. Anyway, no means no, the last thing you want is to be that "dumb guy with his nose open" Just be confident, don't sweat her or she'll run you like Carl Lewis on an olympic track.
2007-02-14 12:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's really sweet because all girls want flowers, and she was probably just being modest. If she told you to get her flowers, she would probably feel stupid afterwards, and her ex was being a TOTAL jerk!!
2007-02-14 12:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i find it sweet that you care about her so much you send her flowers to make her feel better
if she doesn't like you for that you should more on to some who appreciates you more
2007-02-14 12:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Selena♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet
2007-02-14 12:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by little asian gal in cresent city 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋