I'm going to be a virgin for the rest of my life.?

Question

I have decided this. I have been keeping my virginity for a long time and even though I found my soul mate, the one, etc, and if I cannot be with him then nobody else deserves to have this treasured piece of my soul. It really hurts to know I won't experience what this universe seems to love the most: sex. But I feel it is the right thing in saving it instead of throwing it away. If there is a God, then he has planned this all for me. Maybe even the dead relatives of my soul mate or God will change this and make 'the one' love me. Then I can experience this 'sex.' Everything happens for a reason.

You don't know the savage ANGER I feel when I realize my soul mate is out there sexing up other women. It hurts me so much. And no...not so fast. I cannot get over this person. I was never with him in the first place due to age difference and his availability. He has changed me as a person though, for the better. I wouldn't be who I am now without him.

Answer 1

You have problems.
Very BIG mental problems.

Get help...

Answer 2

My dear sister in spirit....First of all, I will pray for you..second of all.. you will more than likely not be a virgin the rest of your life unless you become a nun. The remaining a virgin until marriage that God is talking about is saving it until your husband shows up, which will be God ordained. If this man you desire is within Gods will to be your chosen, then calm down, he will be. If not, then he is not who the Lord has for you. Do not sell yourself short. I do not doubt the life changes he has prompted in your life, but, God is love and when he is in the mix, it will be good. So, although it sounds like you have determined that he is "the one", don't assume he is the God chosen one for you. Although everything happens for a reason, we also get in our own way and our own actions change the outcomes of what could or should happen...this is called freewill choices that God allows us to have. You are doing the right thing to save yourself for your beloved. You are almost right to feel angered, but unfortunatly current society norms allow sex as an act that is selfish and happens whenever we give in to our fleshly desires....I wish I was as strong as you and have saved it.....I have rededicated myself and my "gifts" to the Lord and I plan to not have the act again until marriage.... I wish you luck and success in life and I will pray you find your way...

Answer 3

A wise man once said, "the only sure thing in life, is change."

Don't give up hope on finding the one you love; perhaps this relationship did not happen for a reason, though you may not know the reason today, I guarantee one day in the future you will realize that you would not change this, though it hurts as bad as it does, for the world.