me and my bf are fighting bad and i dont kno how to tell him that ium pregnant ive been hiding it for him for 4 months do u think he'll get mad that ive been hiding it im still young and i just dont kno what to do
2007-02-14 12:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by pregant help 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
im 17 and ive already been to the doctors
2007-02-14 12:22:46 · update #1
no see the boy who used to hit me me and him are over i have a new bf he would never hit me
2007-02-16 12:50:47 · update #2
No matter how much you are fighting he still has the right to know. Just come out and tell him. You never know he may be happy and stop fighting with you. He may get mad at you for keeping it from him but just explain to him that you are scared and didn't know how to tell him. If he doesn't understand then he will get over it. Good luck
2007-02-14 12:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by lem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got pregnant because of you too, now, why are you hiding it from him. He will get mad more if you don't tell him. Have you ever think that maybe that baby will stop you from fighting more. His got the right as the father. Besides you cannot do it by yourself, the baby needs a father and a mother.
You have to tell him right away so you can plan the next move. Whether he will accept the baby or not at least you did your job as a mother to your baby by telling it to the father.
Until when you can keep it from him, until you give birth?
2007-02-14 12:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to get to a doctor right away. You did not indicate whether or not you have been yet.
Second of all, you should tell your b/f right away, and stop trying to hide it. It's his child too, he should be made aware that he has a child on the way.
If he gets upset, he will get over it. You can not hide your pregnancy for very long.
If you are very young, you also did not indicate your age, you need to speak with an adult right away. Hopefully your mother or father.
Good Luck!
2007-02-14 12:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Happily Ever After 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it takes two to tango. But i will let you in on a secret. At 17 he most likly not going to be the one you are with for life. You need to talk to your parents and get their help as this is who you will need most for support
2007-02-14 14:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him. You can say you just found out so he wont get madder. It is normal to go 2 to 4 months before you know so its believable.
2007-02-14 12:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen your boyfriend cannot get mad at you for this .you cant have a baby on your own now can you and just because your the one pregnant it dont mean that the responsibilities should be on you. just tell him because this is worrying you and you should nt be getting stressed.it aint agood thing.if he really cares for you he will except his responsibility also.
2007-02-14 12:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by truth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he hits you get charges of assault against him. Yes you should tell him because he deserves to know. Also you should tell your parents if they don't know already.
2007-02-14 13:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DEAR
CALL YOUR FATHER BROTHER UNCLE GRANDFATHER ETC YOUR FAMILY AND LET THEM KNOW HE HAD BEEN HITTING YOU AND NOW YOU ARE HAVING A NEW BABY OK
TAKE CARE
2007-02-14 19:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you get any younger?
2007-02-14 15:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋