there is this boy in my school and he loves me and i love him to and we always chat online and he asked me to be is girlfriend and i said no cause my friend also likes him to and if i go out wit him my friend will get mad at me and wouldnt be friend anymore. SOO idont want that to happen. But i really love him i always think about him. everyone started liking him. and he said i was the most beautiful girl in school. So.. this girl i think asked him out and he said yes. so now they sit next to each other and i felt so bad and my heart was broken. and it was one valentine's day!!! and i was hoping that he will ask me out and i would of said yes. but he went out wit a girl that doesnt look good for him and she stinks like armpit and shes ok but there not a good match. and i was so mad and he was looking at me like he felt sad too but happy wit her. and on the same day he said hello online and i sed hi then he left. and i still like him. what should i do?????
2007-02-14 12:11:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Wait till they break up, and then tell him the truth. Say you just said no because your friend liked him, and ask him if he still has any feelings for you.
2) He's just some guy. He's not really worth breaking a friendship over, if, that is, that particular friendship is valuable to you. Find someone else, it will be easier than you think.
2007-02-14 12:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress so much about it. He's just a guy.
Just relax and have fun with your friends being single. If it's meant to happen it will and if it's not you'll find someone else.
Also, leave this new girl alone. It is in no way her fault. Do not interfere with her chances with this guy.
It's my experience that no on is a good match in school so really whether it was you or her, there's little chance that it was going to last. My friends went out for 2 and a half years at school, but broke up. I went out with my first boyfriend for a whole year and a half but broke up. You change a lot in school and someone you liked at one point can quickly become someone you don't match with.
Good luck and just try to have fun at school!
2007-02-14 20:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Evilstrawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely tell the boy how you feel about him going out with another girl after telling you you were the most beautiful girl in school. Tell him you don't feel right like this and that it bothers you and if he really is a so-called Ladies Man, then he will truly understand and will try to work out the problem. Hope this helps.
2007-02-14 20:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What grade are you in? The answer really does depend on the maturity level that you are both at. Is it junior high, high school? All I know is that if you feel that his connection to you was real, as real as yours is to him, he may be doing it to make you jealous. Maybe him being with someone else will make you more assertive. Maybe he didn't feel that you were as interested in him as he thought you were. You might want to consider talking to him online and asking him how he could tell you that he loves you and then go out with someone else. As for your friend, if your feelings for him are real, that is something that you should pursue, and if your friend is really your friend, they will understand, and support you.
2007-02-14 20:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lost your first chance by worrying about what your friend said you should have took him when you had the chance
now you have to either wait till the next time he is single or find a way to win his heart over the girl he is with
just dont do anything that would risk your chance with him
good luck
2007-02-14 20:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by jdpskating 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say: try to forget about him for the time being, i know you can't forget about him completely but while he has another girlfriend, you pretty much have to (or at least pretend to). the best way to get a guy is to act like you are having a great time without him...it sounds crazy but it's true. have fun with your friends...boys will come and go but true friends will stick with you. good luck!
2007-02-14 20:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by she's_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he asked you to be his girlfriend and you said no, then he moved on to someone else, whats wrong with that? seems to me like you cared about your friends too much and when he stopped asking you, you despertly "suddenly" needed him. sorry but there is really nonthing youc an do except look for someone else.
learn from your mistakes and take a chance the first time
2007-02-14 20:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by matrix dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well boys are like waves if you find a good one, ride it. You sould tell him that you love him alot, and explane why you you said no.....If he understands, you should ask him if the offer was still up, don't forget to remined him that he called you beautiful, ask him if he loves you still, and if he does ask him 2 dump the smelly girl and "lay low" with you for awhile
2007-02-14 20:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by Bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the naughty corner.... you are not behaving like who you really are, a little schooling girl.
you have likings for the boy, it is not love. now repeat that 10times every 6 hour.
study first, love later, it will come. trust me.
2007-02-14 20:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by ricodzeus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need him he is a FAKE. i know you loved him but, it he loved you then he wouldnt say yes to that other girl. if u were most bea-uitful then y did he go with her? 1.) dont go out with a hottie or a player, they got this way from practice.
2007-02-14 20:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋