my boyfriend is having a lot of family trouble now and he rarely talks to me anyone. He's my everything i go to school about an hour and a half away from where he lives so i cant see him all the time. Anyway i don't have many friends and used to talking to him a lot, now were lucky if its 5 mins. a day. I'm hurting so much, i cant eat and when i do i throw it up and I've been crying a lot. What can i do to ease the pain?!?!
2007-02-14 12:11:02 · 12 answers · asked by christinag1310 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relax, he is taking care of things at home and he will get more time shortly
2007-02-14 12:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's having a lot of family issues, chances are things are pretty hectic for him at the moment. I wouldn't worry too much. Things should die down soon and it'll be back to normal between the two of you. I would just be there for him.
Don't dwell on it or anything. Just cherish the times you do talk to him, and all the other times I would take the friends you DO have and go out to eat or to a movie.
2007-02-14 12:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by Vshak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, don't make him your everything. Secondly, find other things to do. It will make time pass more quickly. Set some goals such as "I will talk to someone new today" then do it. You will build new relationships and that will only help your relationships in the future. Don't dwell on the bad stuff. Maybe find a counselor or a minister to talk with? If not, try writing down your feelings in order to let them go and get on with other things in your life...like school.
2007-02-14 12:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there, done that!....I know you feel nervous, sick, shakey, crying alot....but all that want help you...You really need a good girl friend to talk to, or if you dont have one find one. You need someone to go out with to take your mind off of its "racing thoughts" find something you like to do and do it. Dont sit there and think about him not calling and wondering what he's up to.
He should be wondering what you are up to, looks as if he's not worried about you. If you were to go and say what a good time you are having maybe he would think....hummm better call and see what she is up to....turn the tables on him.
2007-02-14 12:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Grogan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well!!!sorry to have heard of so much pain from you but you see you have to take it slowly..when you can go through the pain then you're strong my friend and very dependable so dont ever give up..BE STRONG..things happens but they are not there to scare you..things happens to make u strong..and they happen for a PURPOSE..my advice to you is that dont think about it a lot..rather go and spend some times with your friends and families and be postive gal..thats not the end of the world..remember every mountain has its valley..HAVE FAITH IN THAT..
2007-02-14 12:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, just chill. If he's having family problems just let them solve it. Just give him some space to think. And when he's ready he'll come back. By then he'll need your love and comfort. That's why you're there for. Don't starve yourself!! Don't hurt yourself... think of what he's going though at the moment. By being yourself and be there for him is enough for him to love you! If by doing this, he'll worry more and get even more depress... ease some of his pain... Look at the bright side... Be strong for you... and for him!! Don't worry things will look up if you believe it too!!
2007-02-14 12:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by lAVi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem is you should not make someone your everything to the point where you cannot do everyday daily and needed things such as eating. Perhaps you should try making friends and not depending on him to make your world go round, who really knows what he is going through and/or doing!!
P.S.Please Eat Something!!
2007-02-14 12:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are not like woman, they don't find it easy to pour their heart out about personal matters.If you love him be patient ,he will come around just try and show him your support, put your feelings aside and think about what he's going through. Most of the time they work it out, and they would like to know that your going to be there when they do. Good Luck
2007-02-14 12:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why worry about something you can't do nothing about. If he really liked you he would make an effort to call you more often or see you more. But I wouldn't let something like that ruin your life. It happens to everyone in teh world. SO don't worry, want to chat more just IM me anytime
2007-02-14 12:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Relationship, should be your Reward. Not your Hardship. Give it a chance to grow. But you can't let someones hard times, get you down. It'll eat you up inside!
2007-02-14 12:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him when he does need you it's hard but hand in there take what ever time you can get and be happy with that for now it will get better
2007-02-14 12:16:03 · answer #11 · answered by Selena G98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋