Over coming Suicide?

Question

have you ever felt like noone seems to care when you give em advice, or when you depress and your trying to tell someone how it feels, they really rather be doing something else other than talking to you? Well see I don't have hardly any good friends anymore because i either talk to much or im just down right annoying, they always say their too busy or something, and well for awhile my boyfriend tells me i get annoying and when he tells me that or when noone wants to talk to me, i always go to the corner or in my bed and lay down and tell myself that i should comitte suicide noone really cares for me anyways, and if i dont comitte im juss going to keep making the same mistake over and over and over how can i overcome all this?

Answer 1

1st
Dump the loser boyfriend! If he is telling you this now there will just be a divorce in the future.
2nd
Do not let anyone put you down, you are just as good as anyone else and if he doesn't like it tell him to kiss off.
3rd
Don't worry about finding some one to be with, just let it happen. Sooner or later there will be a guy who will think you are great and then you will have found the person for you.

But ending it would not solve anything, it would just make you a quitter. Don't quit, prove them all wrong! You are worth it. They are not!
:O)
Jerry

Answer 2

UNless people are fellow sufferers they dont understand and ask yourself do you really want them to? I dont because that would mean they had to travel the same path as I have and I wouldnt wish that on my worst enemy. I believe you boyfriend cares or he wouldnt have stuck by you, it cant be much fun for him and yet he's there but he cant help you. The only person who can help you is yourself, my advice is to see a counsellor they are trained to assist you help youself. Keep whats happening in your head for them. Its OK to have quiet time away from others but not if you start thinking of suicide, if that happens get up and go for a walk, if its cold wet rug up but get moving a brisk 1/2 hour walk will do wonders. Whne you are at your wits end remember if you manage to succeed you could find yourself all alone on the other side and still miserable so thats not the answer. The answer is in doing somthing proactive, see a Dr get some medication, you may need to try a few before you find what suits you and then you will be amazed at the difference, help yourself and do not expect others to do it for you. I ahve a lot of friends who have no idea how bad I get or whats going on in my mind and thats the way it will stay.

Answer 3

Hello Hollywood´s Doll. You are not alone, there is thousands of people feeling like you right now. You should not commit suicide. Every human being in this world has a task to accomplish. You have a task too, only that you do not know it. Try to find out what it is. Remember when you were a kid, what dreams you had, and try to make them true. People now a days are very self centered, most of them focus in their life rather than try to help others. I think there is a good idea that you are on Yahoo. This way you can talk to many people and tell them how you feel. Look for new opportunities to meet people, for example join tennis classes or yoga. Find your hobby. Look for help in a psychiatrist, he will listen to your problems. You have got to find the root of your problem. Maybe there is an organic reason for you to feel bad (maybe an unbalance in brain neurotrasmiters that make you feel depressed). Thank god that you have a boyfriend a soul mate. Do not annoy people with your problems, annoy the psychiatrist. I also go often to lay down on my bed and feel the way you do. However I try to make huge efforts to go out, do different activities and make new friends. It is important not to always talk but also listen to others peoples problems. A two way conversation. Once you help others you will feel better.
My sister committed suicide when she was 12. It is a really sad story. She did not enjoy what life had for her. It affected the family so much and her friends. It is not worth to commit suicide. Remember: try to find why you are in this world. Believe me, one can have an impact on others and the world. [e-mail]

Answer 4

it seems to me you're fairly young so let me get to the bottom line. I'm over 40 years old and I've been through a lot of things in life, good and bad. feeling like we live a meaningless life is not your privilege. I've felt it just as millions of people worldwide from all backgrounds, cultural level, gender, and so forth. your boyfriend is not helping much either. maybe he's just a selfish SOB but YOU, just you can overcome all this. Life do sucks sometimes but the alternative to it is far worse. Believe me, years from now you will laugh at these momentary adversities and realize what a fool you were. If you ever feel down and can't find someone to listen to you, email me and we can chat. By the way, don't worry I'm thousands of miles away from you.....

Answer 5

Well my dear you certainly have a lot to think about.
Talk too much & annoying........what are you really doing?
Starved for attention..lack of boundaries
Who hurt you so much?
Read "Living in love with myself" by Barry Elsworth
What gives you joy? Find it.
Give to others what you want. Listen to others that are lonely & need someone to talk to. Volunteer for a hospital. Give something of yourself to someone. Talk less & listen, Relationships need balance.
You are NOT going to make the same mistakes over & over again. You are aware, you're asking questions.
When you give to another that which you need, it will come back. It's the law of attraction. Read the Abraham material by Esther & Jerry Hicks.
Ask & it's given, seek & you'll find,

Answer 6

Well, first off, this boyfriend and friends don't sound like friends and a lover to me. and second, suicide is not the answer, people will miss you, such as your family. Try to get help if possible. My father committed suicide, and let me tell you its not a fun thing to go through. If you need to talk e-mail some time. I'll talk.

Answer 7

Chruch saved my life....I have tried to commit suicide a few times and i used to cut, i went the whole nine yards. No Joke. But I started going to a Christian church. Many christians have started out much like yourself, and they get saved, i guess that's the religion, you don't have to become a church freak like me (i go 3 days a week) but let me tell you, church is amazing. Converting your life to christ and become a christian is the best choice you can make for yourself.

"When We Die, We Stand In Jugdement Before God, You Can Either Stand Alone Or Stand With Christ...And I WOuldn't Want To Stand Alone...Would You?"-Dave Stout

Answer 8

You are in dangerous water. If you're actually making plans for killing yourself call a crisis line.

If you're surrounded by jerks, better to be alone. Sincerely, your friends don't sound very nice and you deserve to be listened to.

if you are wallowing in self pity, maybe you need to check your need for attention.

No matter what you deserve to be accepted as is.

Please, if you're seroius about suicide, tell a professional. You deserve to have someone listen!

Answer 9

well god didnt put us on this earth to just kill our self. yeah, i have gone through it to, you can find a way around it. Life is meant to be lived to the best degree and i think that you can do that. Just pray and keep looking for help and try to do the right thing( thats not killing yourself!) if you do, many people will get sad and depressed, even though you may not think so.....best of luck and do the right thing.
email me if you ever need help!!!

Answer 10

The problem is that your self-esteem is based on what you can get from other people, and this is dangerous.

Your self-esteem should be based on your worth. Your worth improves when you do something for someone else.

Try it.

Next time you're depressed, go somewhere and do something for someone else, and make it something good, something you don't expect anything for in return.

See what happens.