I am 15 and my girlfriend is 13, so there is an age difference but it's not much. She is in grade 8 at a different school and I'm in grade 9. We have only been dating for 2 weeks, and she seems to be getting way ahead of me, like she asks me all the time how far I would go with her, and she tells me all the stuff she has done with other guys, and she is always talking about the millions of guys she has dated. Last week she called me and told me that she kissed another guy, and she kept telling me how sorry she was. She is really high maintenance. Do you have any advice? What should I do? Should I break it off or try to make it work since it's my first girlfriend?
2007-02-14 12:03:43 · 17 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump her and get someone else. If she kissed another guy once, chances are she'll do it again. And, if she tells you about the millions of other guys, chances are you're just one of the guys who she'll be telling her next boyfriend about. You deserve better.
2007-02-14 12:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Vshak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys are way too young for this stuff. And if shes high maintenance do yourself a favor and just let her go. You are never gonna beable to trust her. She already has alot of guys around her and shes already kissed another boy. What makes you think she hasn't done anything else with other boys (?)
She already broke your trust why keep her around man . You deserve better !!!!!!
Break up with her ....
2007-02-14 12:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would dump her if she kissed another guy i am a 13 year old girl and if i had a boyfriend who kissed another girl i would dump him if u do break up with her say it to her face but ask to still be friends i am sure she will feel a little better just keep talking to her though i remember my break-up o the boy was missing alot over me good-luck
2007-02-14 12:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by spicy delicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow it really kinda sucks for you
you cought a whore on your first try
best advice i can give is break it off cause that kiss is just gonna get worse as the relationship goes on
plus her being that young and already that expierenced is pretty much a sign that you are only just another guy. and being that she is your first she is gonna throw you away sooner than you think
so i say kick that whore to the curb before she breaks your heart
2007-02-14 12:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by jdpskating 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its harder to maintain a relationship if you two are at separate schools. (high school vs middle school). High mantinence usually means a lot of money out of your pocket and lots of time spent on her. If you want to stay with her it's your choice. Since she told you the truth about the kiss, give her another chance.
2007-02-14 12:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend obviously wasn`t true to you, so you probably should break up. But if you think it`s ok for her to be kissing another guy, stay w/ her.
2007-02-14 12:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by Yuki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like what I call a baby barracuda, if you value you sanity you will break it off with her quick.
2007-02-14 12:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by Indiana Jones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fact that she actually confessed it to you takes guts. And she apologised. I would tell her that you are hurt, but you are willing to forgive her. However, if this happens again, I wouldn't suggest you keep dating her.
2007-02-14 12:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go as far as she is willing and then leave her when you get tired. Then find someone you actually like.
2007-02-14 12:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by parrotsandgrog 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, she is an early blooming skank. find a new one. find one that is 15 though, then you wont be so suprised when she turns out to be one too.
2007-02-14 12:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by bassdog65 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋