Ok, im not really really poor, i have nice clothes to wear, food on the table, im actually very fortunate. but MY HOUSE.. is like, horrible. its small and cluttered and dirty, stained carpet, rusty sinks, riped couch, and i hate it. i never bring my friends here ( we moved in with my step-dad ) i live in a pretty nice neighborhood and everyone is very well off. I feel like i can't have a boyfriend because i would be ashamed to let them in my house, even just to walk in. i know that they should love me for who i am, not what i have, but idk, could a relationship continue without ever comming near my house? does that seem just stupid? -its just one of my many worries..haha
but to conclude this, i feel like i won't let anyone near me because it means letting them near my house.
2007-02-14 11:58:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah um Mr. "SC"..? FUC|< OFF.. wtf do you MEAN he lets us stay there? we pay half the rent, just like him. know what your talking about before you type such things..
2007-02-14 12:18:29 · update #1
Just don't let them come over
2007-02-14 12:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I can totally relate to you on this one. How old are you? I ask this because When I was a little girl, alotta times my house was a wreck, at times a disaster. I felt horrible because it was like that and I didn't know what to do. Anyway, it was like that because both my mom and dad worked. It was messy alot but I knew they loved me because they never let my brothers and I go without. When I became a teenager I took pride in how well I kept the house while mom was workin like a dog. Try and help them, it'll build charictor in you.
2007-02-14 20:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really poor, but only inside. You have lost your confidence as a very beautiful, cute and smart girl. Your guy. If he is the one for you, he would not care at all about your house. You are inclined to move out later any way. Come on. Brag a little. Dance a little. Get in a mood. That's all you need.
2007-02-14 20:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by devid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My son dated and married a girl in this same situation. Fix up your room the best you can. Don't worry so much about the material side of life . It's all about who YOU are, not what you have. My son never went to her house much, he's pick her up and come home. We all had a wonderful time. Maybe you'll find someone who will want to make things better for you too. Ugly houses can be a beautiful home.
2007-02-14 20:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by ladybugjan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's very fake. You said you moved in with your step dad. So it is not your house. You are lucky to have a roof over your head. If you don't like that place, move to a place of your own and pay for it yourself instead of insulting someone who lets you stay there.
You can't enjoy a relationship because you don't like yourself.
2007-02-14 20:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where i live we have six cars in our driveway 2 are newer and the other four are older we live in a nice house but its cluttered too and we live in a average neighborhood. but you're right people should like you for the way you are so you know what you do get a good education and work hard so you don't end up living in the same gross conditions hopefully realizing you live in gross conditions will motivate you goodluck
2007-02-14 20:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by yukonSLT3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well lets see, for the sink, buy a can of comet, it works great. sew the holes in the couch, or like i do put a clean sheet on it, po folks couch cover. do what you have to do about the clutter. maybe it isn't as bad as you make it out to be. but to tell you the truth, the day that someone comes to see my house and not me, is the day they will not be welcome in my house.
2007-02-14 20:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by lolly125107 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I was like that too! But you know what who cares!! They should like you for you who are not what you have!! Let him see it once and see what he thinks... if he's disgusted with it.. oh well.. you live there.. so what.. its not like you're gonna stay there for your whole entire life!! But a relationship could continue without ever going to your home but one day he'll start wondering and start asking questions and starts jumping into conclusions........ etc......... so its really on you? They should love you for who you are not what you have... we ain't Paris Hilton..
2007-02-14 20:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by lAVi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about the disabled that live worse? Or elderly? My house aint no prize, but its mine. I'm warm, safe, and can send you pictures of exactly what you describe. Big deal, what's wrong with dating poor girls? Never saw anything bad about it.
2007-02-14 20:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about that. Most guys usually dont care. I know i wouldnt. Ive been there before. Usually if you meet a guy and he tells you that he has been poor once then he will understand.
2007-02-14 20:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess you could live in your car,, my best friend is living in a tent in the desert with a sleeping bag and gets to eat about every 3 days,, my heart bleeds for you,, geeeez,,
2007-02-14 20:02:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋