My exboyfriend went back to his ex-girlfriend whith whom he supposedly says he tried to break it off with in their final 6 months. After he finally found the strength to do it, she slit her wrists and was sent to the hospital, finally after she left the hospital she woul went in front of his gate for hours at a time hoping he would come out, sent him emails and constantly called hi. Me and him broke up over a stupid misunderstanding due to text messages and now I have seen him back with his ex again.. How could or why would someone go back to their ex who had tried to commit suicide? What would there be to get out of it? And am I being stupid for wanting my ex back because I think the reason he broke up with me is stupid and he could do better being with a girl like me than his ex?
2007-02-14 11:56:45 · 8 answers · asked by spiraled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mutual dependency.
She's looking for a surrogate father figure, to run her life. She's "Lost" without him.
SOME men find that authority a power trip. Usually though, it wears kinda thin. In a surprisingly short time, too.
Chances are, he forgot how wearying it can get. Don't be surprised if he comes sniffing around you in about three months.
Question is- should you take him back? I say NO- he'd just be using you until he was ready for ANOTHER round with the other girl.
2007-02-14 12:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation. I know hoe it feel, trust me on this. He's now back with his x whom he dated 4,5 years ago. look at the bright side: he's not that faithful, he didn't want you bad enough. You're on the right track here. If he found himself attracted to a girl that once attempted to commit suicide, is he worth to fight for ? (i think not, cause he's dumb). I know you'll be sad for the next week or so , but i got over it, so can you. It's his lost, not yours. Have a happy Valentine's day.
2007-02-14 12:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by mhn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truly basically block her... ok perchance no longer. tell her that you men can nevertheless be friends and the relationship might want to be strictly platonic. it truly works. What no longer to do is block her or be mean to her... even as my brother had his first female friend she broke up with him by fb. And trust me he sounds a useless ringer for this lady your speaking about. He might want to message her on on a daily basis foundation besides as stalk her in school and get in contact with her dissimilar circumstances in a unmarried hour. She blocked him and fb and typed some profane message. He cried for days. yet then she reported they're typically friends again. It worked out, now he's over her. sturdy success~
2016-10-17 07:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by irish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cause hes freakin stupid....
and i guess he liked the attention that,that stalker was giving him!
trust me. the exact same thing happened to me.
but either way i say you just forgot about him.
it took me a while...but i can finally say im over him.
they're are way better people out there.
and this guy isn't worth it.if he'd rather be with a psycotic girl.
2007-02-14 12:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does not make you stupid, he hurted you, and there is no way of knowing what was going on in is mind. Maybe he blames himself for what she did. but you are better off without him. find someone that is going to give their full attention to you and not to his ex. they are out there. good luck.
2007-02-14 12:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He went back to her because he cared more for her. Sorry.
2007-02-14 12:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 're right,but he's trying to stop this person from hurting herself.
2007-02-14 12:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAybe he still like her or felt sorry, she be an emo
2007-02-14 12:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋