there is this guy that im becoming really good friends with in a higher grade..
and he tells me he like me, and i tell him i like him.
were becoming very close..
but the thing is..
we never talk in person.. we only talk on the computer or on the phone!
im really scared things are going to be akward by talking in person..
we already know like everything about eachother,
and you may think that makes things easier..
but i just dont know what to say to him.
i really like him.
and i have a class with him and everything!
but how should i carry on a conversation with him?
pleasee help!
2007-02-14 11:49:22 · 9 answers · asked by emmie n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every long journey begins with the first step. Do not let fear creep in where it does not belong. Beside the acronym for fear is as follows:
F alse
E xpectations
A ppearing
R eal
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2007-02-14 11:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship starts out pretty well. There is a sign of communication. Take it from me, speak fast anything anywhere. Chances come and go very fast. Hearts are broken often by words left unspoken. I had the same problem cos i was a fruitcake and ended up pushing my bf away. Today i end up having a lonely valentine. (sobbing).
2007-02-14 20:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show a little self confidence and start by saying hello! You might even mention in chat that you are a little bit shy but that you would like to get to know him better in person. He probably would like the same thing but is shy or afraid as well. You can always start by asking him in chat if he would like to go with you to a movie or something? If he didnt like you he wouldnt be talking with you...It cant hurt for you to ask!!!
2007-02-14 19:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds just like me and my girlfriend. I'm in grade 9 and my girlfriend is in grade 8 at a different school! We talk on the phone almost every night, but we only get to see each other on the weekends. The first couples weeks of dating it was sort of weird when we saw each other, but we got more comfortable with each other eventually. Just hang out with each other every weekend, go to his house or he can go to yours or maybe go see a movie or something like that. Maybe you can invite him over after school and you can help each other out with your homework. When you see him in person, talk to him about things you talked about on the phone so then it doesn't seem like you guys are completely different on the phone and when you are together in person!
2007-02-14 19:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and start the conversation with something pleasant. I don't know how old you are but don't start your conversation with sex, politics,or religion.
Talk about anything else like movies, books, music, and etc.
If Lady Destiny wants you two together she will bring you together.
Trust me on this one
2007-02-14 19:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Karissa Anne L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels the same way, its okay to be a little scared. you think that way now. but when you do meet in person. you will surprisingly be talking away. good luck.
2007-02-14 19:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak in person or this relationship will go nowhere. If its as good as you say it is there will be no problem.
2007-02-14 19:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by mazza94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is what happens to me too i just start to talk about something that we but like and then go from there.
2007-02-14 19:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by kc34119 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him
2007-02-14 19:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋