we were friend for near 3yrs .Everybody told me that she was perfect (look,money,..etc).I knew that but when she said that she felt she was in love with me ,I told her that love is not that simple and we need more time to grow up .5months later I was invited to her wedding ceremony .I drank alot and had lots of fun .But, that was my last funny night .How hard I try,I cant remove her from my mind ,once even cried while sleeping .I wasn't an evel guy that she did this to me .My fault was that I just thought love should be something drastic.
2007-02-14 11:22:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Love can come fast in days even moments or take decades to come and/or understand.Look Hopefully you two are still friends and at least you have that. I hope I am wrong but it seems to me that if she married five months later after she asked you to bring your relationship to the next level. Maybe she was tired of being single and wanted to get married quick. Some women when they get over 28 or so panic that they will never have a husband and family. I think this might have been what happened.
Please take it from someone who's done it to herself. Try and move on. It sucks and it's difficult. I know it is but you have to move on with your life. I did it when my ex and I blew our relationship apart. All you can do is take time to recover and go back out there and find someone else. If you want to talk to me I have YIM. Good luck!
2007-02-14 11:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by mistyfan69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is somthing that you wont have any dobts about. I really think it wasnt love considering she got married not even a year after telling you she loved you, she seemed to just want to jump into a relationship and second because you will know if your in love or not and not saying it to her was your gut feeling, it was the best choice, and you might not think it was the right thing and that your heart broken, you will learn later on in your life perhaps sooner than later that it was for the best and you will get that love that you are looking for.
2007-02-14 14:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day something knocked the door ,crashed into your mind ,changed your whole life ,more exciting, more colorful ,that was love my friend .you can't undrestand exactly when it comes and when it leaves .The point is it makes you grow up and experience this most exclusive feeling.This love's at the end ,will be forgotten .But keep on loving and pass on to others .This is the phelosephy of love !!
2007-02-15 21:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by massi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she loved you, you wanted more time, now shes married.
You wish she was still available? Understandable.
Maybe you didnt know how much you actually loved her?
Time- it all takes time.
2007-02-14 11:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by MommyTwice-TwiceTheLove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋