Well i have this girl that has been my friend since kindergarden and we hadnt seen each other since like 7th grade and she came back into my life and the feelings i had for her came with it...those feelings being love and the feelings from her are mutual....However i have been dating this girl and she great and i fell in love with her and we've been dating for 7 almost 8 awesome months and both are making me choose one of them...but nither really want to be friends if i dont choose them...so i really need some advice
2007-02-14 11:03:15 · 11 answers · asked by ocsaries89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love"
2007-02-14 11:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by ascanio91 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you love both of them? I'd think that you love the one that you've been dating for 7-8 months more because the other person just jumped in your life. Your feelings for them might just be giddy ones. Stop being selfish and evaluate your feelings so that the person that you don't choose can get on with their lives.
2007-02-14 11:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by carebare2120 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl tat just came bak could be different then u remember her. Plus she's ruinin a good relationship between u and ur girl.The other girl probably doesn't want her 2 have u so she's tring 2 take u away from her. She'll probably dump u if she finally gets u and sees som1 better lookin then u. This of course is theoretical but it could happen.
2007-02-14 11:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, if they are forcing you to choose between one of them they are making it really unfair to you. if they are saying that if you don't "choose" them they won't be your friends you should think about what that would mean they won't care about you if you go with the other. however, you probaly don't want to risk losing both of them so if i were you, i would go with the one you are currently dating. no what i can read it looks like the other was already a friend and butted into your life and demanded to be your girlfriend because you knew her previosuoly. if the one you are already dating is "great" as you say, then stick with her unless there is more reason to do not so.
really hope i helped and didn't make it more confusing :)
2007-02-14 11:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by matrix dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having both ladies making you choose them is hard, but we live life once and you are definetly torn. but since you started a relationship with one lady i think you should continue and let her know that you plan to keep contact with your long time ago friend. if she has pressures from your response then your relationship is still new. it can be a friend or no friend status. remember if you let your relationships dictate your choices in life you will always be whipped.
2007-02-14 11:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Garnet M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stick with the girl you are dating now. This new girl might think she has feelings for you but the feelings are nothing compared to what the girl you have been dating has for you it seems. Just go with instict. If you love your gf you will stay with her!
2007-02-14 11:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by babygirlxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into your heart and see where you really lie. Ask yourself: Why do you like this person? Would you envision yourself going out with this person? Etc.
Also take the advice of the person who posted before me. It makes you think.
2007-02-14 11:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by lorrnae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you've known longer...DUHHHH! Lol. :-) Pick the kindergartner girl..it sounds like you really luv her. N since you two have known each other for a pretty long time..it'll help strengthen your relationship. Hope I helped! :-)
2007-02-14 11:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by ☼§♫STar_ShINe♫§☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry the one that cooks well, and keep seeing the one that is beautiful. Lol, I'll get a lot of thumbs down for that one:-)
2007-02-14 11:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by harakiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you dont choose . you should inform them that at this time you do not feel that dating one person only is possible.
explain that you would like to date both of them for a time in order to figure out which of the two is better able to please you.
the one who complains the most about this seeks to please you the least so dispose of her.
2007-02-14 11:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd take the girl that your already dating... if u choose the other one she may think that u would also dump he if sumthing better came along
2007-02-14 11:08:43 · answer #11 · answered by Ambini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋