So I am getting out of a relationship of a year and a half, we lived together and did foster care together, I choose to move out but we agreed to still work on it. we have been talking for the last three months but taking a break. this past month he has called me weekly and we have talked. He asked me to wait for him, that he neded space. I have been waiting, last week he called me said I had mail over there, I go to get it and tell him I can't wait anymore to just foward my mail and we go our sperate ways, he breaks down crying "Im empty without, can't live with out you, think about you constantly. we talk and text the next couple days about working it out. Come to find out he has been seeing someone else for a month. Question is should I contact her and tell her he has been pursuing me and saying these things to me or is that just vindictive and I should just move on? I feel she should know that he has been leading both of us on.....
2007-02-14 10:53:21 · 3 answers · asked by Linzanne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm.... that's a pretty tough situation. In my opinion, you should do what your heart tells you, whether it is to tell her or not. But as far as he goes, you should definitely move on with you life, there's plenty of fish in the sea that would definitely appreciate a patient woman like you. Good luck!!
2007-02-14 11:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by princessalex_ramirez89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately tell her, and then move on, this is an old game i've played for many years. When one woman is busy, then i always have one or two others i can be looking too for a romping good time in the bedroom.
Currently I have 4 women in my life. I keep schedules as they are professional women and i even have to run a day timer in order to keep our dates straight in my head.
They all know about each other. Sorry i'm at my limit right now or i'd invite you into my harem LOL. Yep thats what those 4 ladies call it.
2007-02-14 18:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as tempting as it may be, I wouldn't. Let her learn her own lessons. Chances are, she wont believe you anyway. One good thing to make you feel better and "get back at him" is to ignore him to the point of nonexistence... that'll teach him not to toy with a woman's heart. you don't want a man like that anyway. sever all ties (mail, shared bills, etc) and move on. Good luck!
2007-02-14 19:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Onyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋