My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. We dated a year ago for 3 months then broke up because he got sent away to boarding school... He came back and we've been talking ever since. We "officially" got back together then 3 days later, he got in a car accident, he got badly hurt and was hospitalized for around 2 months I went to see him at the hospital only once because his dad was there most of the time and he severly dissaproves of me because of some mistakes I made last year. I haven't seen him since he got out of the hospital because of his father. I really love him and he says the same but for the last two weeks, he hasn't told me he loves me and we've talked maybe twice. I've been debating breaking up with him for a while and I attempted to today but I couldn't get the words out cause it's Valentines Day and I felt horrible. A couple hours ago, he asked me if I was breaking up with him and instead of saying yes, I told him no, I couldn't do that if I wanted to... tbc
2007-02-14 10:50:13 · 5 answers · asked by ~*~That Silly Oto...~*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this is really long and confusing but our past relationship makes this soo hard for me. another thing holding me back is the fact that he talks about us in the future, he really wants us to be together for a long time, I'm only a junior in high school, he's a senior so I'm not ready for that kind of commitment but I feel like telling him I don't want to be with him for any amount of time will make him hate me... Oh, I really wanted to go to Prom with him too, I'm afraid that if I break up with him now, he won't go with me... I'd appreiciate girls' and guys' advice on this.. thanks!!
2007-02-14 10:54:02 · update #1
To clear any confusion, his dad is not what's driving me away... Something just isn't right in out relationship, like I said for the last two weeks he's barely talked to me, therefore, he hasn't told me he loves me... Him telling me he loved me was what was keeping me hanging on, now that he doesn't say that, I'm more wanting to end this...
2007-02-14 10:59:39 · update #2
It doesn't sound like it would last if you's did try to stay together again. You can explain to him about his dad making it to difficult for you to see and talk to him.
2007-02-14 10:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let his father stop your love. If he's holding a grudge against you for your past mistakes, that's stupid of him. Knowing the fact that he's a father and he's older and he should know better. But i quite understand why he's doing that because he's just watching out for his own son. (of course, who wouldn't) But what you should do is ask your boyfriend if he still wants to be with you. If so, then you both should approach his dad and tell him that it'll be okay and you'll take care of him. Because of your past mistake he's basing it against you for whatever it is. All you need to do his prove him wrong. Show him that you're worth being with his son. There's always hardship between relationships. But if you love him like you say you do, don't doubt your relationship with him. Think of the results if you did break up with him. It hurts!! It would be better if you two face this problem about his dad. Face this challenge head on and everything would be alright. Just don't give up hope yet! AND DON'T GIVE UP YOUR LOVE FOR HIM!!! Hey, instead of thinking about his dad (you could deal with him after you two get back together) you should worry about him. Especially after that accident... but hey... I'm just saying but MAYBE he needs you more than you think. I think he need your love and comfort right now since today is valentines day. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-14 11:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by lAVi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him then No, don't let his dads dislike of you drive you away. however, if you really aren't happy with him then yes. However, before you call it quits, talk to him about how you feel and see how he feels about the situation to. You may both agree that the relationship is over. If you both agree then it won't be weird and you two can probably stay freinds. Good luck
2007-02-14 10:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus ask him does he still love you and if gets really weird like and want to talk to you don't break up with him then just wait maybe another day and if he don't talk to you then break up with him but tell him why are he won't know and you got to him why........
2007-02-14 11:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth & get over it soon. If you break up with him, it's for the better.
2007-02-14 10:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋