when he and i met he kept asking me questions like he really wanted to get to know me. our conversation flowed effortlessly. but honestly, i didnt even notice him before that and after that nothing happened. i saw him everyday at school for two years. the second year though, he started acting like a jerk. then i missed some days at school and when i came back i noticed how he kept paying more attention to me. he would even but into me and my friend's conversations. once i overheard him talking with his friends saying "i even tried making her(my name) jealous". nothing happenned. we were both like the type of people who appear very confident but when im around him, i always felt this nervous tention between us. we seemed to have moved on. got into some realtionships. after a few years though, all of a sudden i keep dreaming about him. what should i do? and who do u think it means?
2007-02-14 10:49:29 · 11 answers · asked by goudazcheeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think when we are stressed, unhappy, or worried about our future we draw back onto past times. Maybe we are trying to decide if we made the right decisions in our lives or if things would have been different if we were with someone else. Dreams can be caused and fantasies created by your thoughts during the day. Don't confuse your dreams with reality.
If you are unattached and you feel compelled contact this person and see where they are in their lives. Just tell them, "You keep coming to mind and I wanted to find out how you are". Of course, if they are happy and with someone else please leave it be. But you never know, you have both grown up now and you should be past the playing games thing that we do when we are young. You may find out he is a bigger jerk than you remember.
If it is an open field be honest, but always remember to BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.
2007-02-14 11:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-Maw 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well dreams are a very complicated matter young lady, but perhaps I can interpret it for you....
Sometimes an old crush in the dream can mean that you are encountering a similar scenario, your mind may be cautioning you to pay attention to avoid letting it happen again. Or perhaps your subconscience is seeking this guy out because it is time to try to rekindle your love. His childish behavior may be behind him and this could be your opportunity.
2007-02-14 10:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by jprofitt303 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I truthfully have the comparable difficulty! I truthfully have drempt some guy I used thus far years in the past, I truthfully have drempt approximately him now for 2 years. confident I nonetheless choose I that relationship would have worked yet I basically don't comprehend a thank you to provide up thinking and dreaming of him. Its terrible.
2016-10-02 03:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by stepp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to overanalyze these dreams. It's very common/normal to have dreams like that - it happens to all of us, whether we admit it or not. I've had dreams about guys I dated 10 years ago, guys I don't even like, guys I'm still crushing on - you see where I'm going with this. It means whatever you want it to mean: if you (still) have feelings for this guy, why don't you just talk to him, maybe hang out as friends and see what happens.
2007-02-14 10:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you see him still than maybe you should try talking to him. if not it could be something in you that needs to work it self out. let the dreams happen. see if there is any meaning to the dream or is it someone else in the dream that you want him to be. Or the other way around.
2007-02-14 10:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by cinderellagirl007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like Cupid has shot his arrow at you! I would say start talking to him again ( more than you do ) and see if you have anything in common or if something can come out of it! Good luck! Happy Valentines Day!
2007-02-14 10:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by guppylover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew, that is really veryyyyy weird, ew, lol, n it is, because that whole story, explains what is going on with me, and it islike exactly right,the dreams and everything, like ew!, so i think that the dreams mean that u like him deep down, and that ur lonley and that just yea deep down u do like him, even tho u think u may not, so i think that you should go for him, i mean he seems to be trying pretty hard, and sometimes jerks are fun, but watch ur heart, lol, but i think u should like go for it! good luck!!
2007-02-14 11:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think because you didn't drool over him, he now likes you. I hope you like him back and remember to say yes if he asks you out!
2007-02-14 10:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Stela P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if u have his number then go out to dinner with him
2007-02-14 10:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by orange_shelby_pig 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont try to be with anyone who doesnt treat you right
Happy Valentine's Day
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2007-02-14 10:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by absoluteao 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋