My parents dont want me to be with him obviosly and well my dad told me to break up with him and i did. WEn i talked to steve he baga to cry!! yes cry and he told me he was fallin inlove with me. Have in mind that he worked everyday for a whole month to save up money to come see me.Well i realized he really likes me. I dont know wat to do i dont want to dissapoint my parent but i think im falling inlove wit him.but im so confused i i wanna be with him but i dont wanna change my plans for him. my future goals but he means so much to me.Helpp!!!
2007-02-14 10:49:19 · 6 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lyke i said- u will be 18 soon and u can do what u want. tal 2 him on da phone until then- then on ur b-day u all can get together and have a second round of sex.
2007-02-14 10:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents have a right to be upset and they probably feel as if they can't trust you when you're with Steve, considering you were sneaking off to hotels with him. I know you really like Steve, so you should try talking to your parents. Maybe if they actually met Steve and saw for themselves that he's a good guy, they'll be understanding. I'm in a long distance relationship and I feel it's possible for one to work, so I don't see why you would have to change your goals at all.. My main suggestion is that you don't sneak off anymore; it'll just cause your parents to dislike Steve even more and prove that you're not responsible enough for a relationship.
2007-02-14 19:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your parents are only trying to protect you. I would talk to them about him. Why did they dislike him? Let them know you value their support and did as they asked. But you still have feelings. Sometimes parents have intuitions you haven't developed yet. Regardless I would encourage you to stick to your future plans. Remember, it is indeed your future. So take your time with the boy, and try not to anger your parents. Often, young love is mostly infatuation. It is seldom that young sweethearts relationships last into adulthood. You both have a lot of growing up to do still. Life will happen to you fast enough, so take it easy.
2007-02-14 19:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you should talk to your Dad and tell him that you like him and he likes you back just tell him the truth. If your dad still doesn't want you to be with him then tell the guy the truth. And to add if you like him and you don't want to change some plans ... there's really no point in being in a serious relationship. Relationships are about sacrifice.
Hope I helped :) Good luck!!
2007-02-14 18:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your goals, think of your future. If this guy is worth anything he will understand and support you in your goals. Your parents apparently think he isn't good enough for you, and they may very well be right in thinking this. That was my impression just by what you have listed about this dude.
Think of your future first before any guy, as your future will determine alot where it pertains to happiness and success.
2007-02-14 18:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 2 really love each other then the both of you should be willing to back off for awhile......You will have lots of time in your life to be a grown-up....Enjoy just being young it passes you by so fast....
2007-02-14 18:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by moodringgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋