why do I choose the same type guy over and over, the bad boy type?

Answer 1

It could be because you think they are exciting, or that you think you can change them or maybe you dont have good self esteem. Good luck.

Answer 2

Let's see if our bad boy type has the same meaning: smoke weed, been to prison, didn't finish high school, love to go to clubs, drink on occasions, love the streets, like hanging out with his partners, carry a gun wherever he goes. Anyways, maybe that's what you like. I'm a college grad and I like Ruff necks or Thug men. I just seems so protected when I'm with them. I have a street friend but girl he treat me with the up most respect. The only problem I have ;is bring them home to Mom. LOL It's nothing wrong with a bad boy ;they about the realest and trillest people to talk ... As long as they are treating you right you are good to go. Be Easy Shawty! :)

Answer 3

bad boys are much more exciting and challenging than the good boys. but in the end its the good boy who wins out after your finished being jacked around and hurt, it is the good one that if you are smart u will choose when picking a mate. bad boys are exciting, but make poor husbands and never seem to be with u for the long haul or if problems arise. u may have a low self worth also, when we have that, we seem to be more open for picking the wrong people to be with. we may not feel as if we are deserving of anything better. but at some point we have to look at our past, and try to figure out why we keep getting into these same messes, think it is because we pick wrong, and for wrong reasons.

Answer 4

All bad boys have a little mystery that women are attracted too. If you are a nurturer, than you are probably attracted to the bad boy type. Nurturers love to help and restore good in bad situations. Maybe you like bad boys because you think you can change them. That's why most women are attracted to boys with problems, anyway.

Answer 5

Maybe you think other guys are too good for you. Well that is NOT true. You are good enough for finding a great guy. Hang with people that realize and value how great you are.

They say bad boys are exciting but do you really need to put yourself through all their rubbish when there are some many great guys out there?

All the best.

Answer 6

You sound afraid of choosing a different type. Maybe one from the past was the first love. You can't recreate the past ones. Try the search for love with different types on purpose......You may find a new confidence in yourself.....New ways, new types...a new discovery within yourself too.

Answer 7

maybe u are bad.. why let urself be tempted by the bad boy type ?
u said it.. u have chosen them.. is most probably the friends u hang out with .. the way u come across.. u are probably a sexy girl anyway as bad boy type always go for looks or easy targets...
take care.. peace

Answer 8

Because you are attracted to the sociopath style. For whatever reason...perhaps a codependency trait in your personality. Bad boys are really very boring. At least in my experience anyway.
They are so into themselves, that they miss out on what its like to really give. The bad boys are really very insecure people in disguise, who can't even be honest with themselves, and who of course do not have a conscience.

Answer 9

Lots of women are attracted to that.

If it gets you in trouble, figure out what you REALLY like about that type, and try to get just that. Is it the dominating nature? Is it the reaction to conservative politics? Try to find that in a guy who otherwise is a better person or whatever.

Answer 10

because theyr always the hot ones!

i hate it.
but what i beleive
is there will be a nice guy that will find you
and show you the love your really looking for
you know, the sweep you off your feet type
<3



or ive seen to many movies
well i like the thought anyways

Answer 11

Umm you must like the bad boy type?