HI just thought id ask some advice,
Theres this guy whom I absolutly am crazy about. Well hes told my sister the feelings mutual but he just needs to find the right time to take it further. Problem is he's just really messing around with me because he'll invite me out, spend the night dancin, talkin, drinkin with me then get a tiny kiss and he goes home. It was his Birthday Monday and i saw him during the day and in a lecture we sat next to one another, I gave him his card and got a hug and a kiss and i've not heard anything since from him. He's had plenty of time to ask me out so whats stoppin him I dont want 2 be a bunny boiler so i dont want 2 push him into anything but how do i figure out whats happening? We've kissed more than enough times, hes showin every sign of attraction and he knows i'm into him so whats stopping him?
2007-02-14 10:43:19 · 11 answers · asked by Amy D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bunny Boiler = A girl who forces a guy to go out with him very english big brother phrase haha!
2007-02-14 10:49:49 · update #1
Oh ye and on average I get two texts a day from him, I've also been sad and read Men are from Mars women are from Venus, I suppose I'm just going to have to ask whats going on between us, because it cant go on like this.
2007-02-14 10:53:03 · update #2
Certainly am not sitting around fretting over him, Im living working and going to uni, He just happens to be someone whos caught my attention big time, i mean its not like i couldnt find someone else, but when i'm nervous i kinda appear alot more confident around people than i am.
2007-02-14 10:58:23 · update #3
Men are generally very insecure creatures. So, he could be feeling things out with you. And, of course, many men fear commitment, and don't want to let other opportunities pass them by. What ends up happening, is they screw things up with the right girl and end up ending up with the wrong ones. I've seen it happen over and over. Just don't live your life for a guy...Be happy, have fun, get out, explore life. And, enjoy yourself. And, stay away from the control freaks.
2007-02-14 10:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not messing with you -- you are imagining things that aren't there. Dangerous for you.
Did you tell him how you feel?
If not, tell him you are interested in dating or a relationship, but that you are not going to press it. Leave it at that and don't contact him until he makes the next communication so he doesn't feel suffocated. Go on with your life, focus on money and your career and keep your eyes open for other people.
It took me a while to understand the term 'bunny boiler' -- is it from the movie? Funny!
2007-02-14 10:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mess with his head, Play hard to get , Trust me
Your to accessible ...guys like a challenge
Hes not totally hooked cuz your something he knows he can have anytime he wants .
Im not in any way trying to put you down But, your doing what most girls your age do, your not making him work for it.
Its none of my business But, if the 2 of you have already done the deed and hes treating you this way forget him your just a side dish, Hes not worth your time!
2007-02-14 10:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♥NEVAR♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a bunny boiler? Anyway stop playing games with him and ask him straight forward what is up with you two. Let him know how you feel and just talk! Good Luck!
2007-02-14 10:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by my_first_love_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him. Guys hate girls who play the role of the man. Do not take that other guy's advice. If anything, send more signals that you're definitely interested, but not in an overt way. And, beyond anything, don't play the role of the man.
2007-02-14 10:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you, it sounds to me that he is playing ho games(mind games), if he was really that interested in you, honey you would of known by know. The reason I think he shows some interest is because he loves the attention, he gets a kick out of it, like a cat-and -mouse game.
2007-02-14 10:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by MonaLisa2626 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're going to have to take the initiative for that which you don't mention. Simply invite him over to your place when nobody else's home and jump his bones.
2007-02-14 10:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open communication is important in resolving your concern. Let him know your interest and he can only say yes or no. Believe in yourself regardless to what he thinks or says.
2007-02-14 10:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by yesmeeks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be to shy 2 ask u out. my advice is 2 ask him out.
2007-02-14 10:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by farahizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u let him!
men only do what women allow~
2007-02-14 10:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋