2007-02-14 10:42:49 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey...you answered one of my questions and i am soon going to give it 'best answer' so i will see if i can answer yours perfectly...
if i actauuly like a girl or like to have sex with her...no way am i going to leave just after the act...probably want to stick around and do more and more acts....now if those are a picture of your hips that you have up there...i will assure you, you would be a candidate for many acts in an evening...
but the other guys...well they either got something to do thats that important...like let the dog out, buy their mom a birthday gift, shoot up herion, or its that they feel uncomfortable...you probably understand that a guys interest with a girl hangs in the air until the moment he cums...then well the extreme desire that may have had us drive across country to get with you drops...especially if there isnt some deep connection...
me, i love to cuddle afterwards, and talk...yeah i guess i am one of those guys!
2007-02-14 10:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys disappear after sex, i no i don't. It's only the true gentlemen that don't disappear after sex, that time after sex is the most important as it shows if your true about the lady or not or vice versa. Most guys are scared of commitment with a lady but i'm not. I say "BRING IT ON" commitment i mean.
2007-02-14 10:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by HOT SINGLE BACHELOR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew...what a loaded question. Think it could be different for each guy according to values, ethics etc. I wasn't brought up to screw with someone's heart that way; however I've been in similar situations....with a bit of wine which also doesn't help. Your feeling attracted, it happens then the guilt. But then there are the guys who just want to get laid....and these people can separate the feelings from the activity. If you want to see just how "real" these guys are don't give in...let them get to know you first and see if you see any patterns with other guys youv'e dated. Might be attracted to some similar traits with each of them. If someone slept with me right away I would wonder if she did the same with other guys........so good luck and all you guys who read this and give me crap....you know it's true.
2007-02-14 10:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Brad B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy disappears after sex, doesn't that tell you something?
2007-02-14 10:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the magic about that kind of stuff is that if you let him have what he wants really soon, he'll have what he wants, lose interest, and move on.
I suggest that if you really like someone, let yourselves build a foundation of understanding and feelings. Do not pop the cork within three months. You'll leave him wanting more. He'll stick around and want to know you better.
If he loses interest before it happens, there's no regret about doing nothing with him and life goes on.
2007-02-14 10:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maximum men whilst they get intercourse from a chcik then they are going to flow else the place to get some greater cos they do no longer elect 2 double dip the comparable dip in case you be conscious of what i mean. no longer all men are like that tho, myself & some different men i no are unlike that throughout the time of any respect, i might somewhat have the entire pie somewhat of slightly the pie.
2016-12-17 10:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with disinterest in anything more than physical relations or a fear of things moving to fast. It isn't only men, by the way. I had that happen to me recently by a girl I thought cared about me. Oh well.
2007-02-14 10:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he didn't care about you.
Ladies, take it from the voice of experience.
Make sure the guy cares for you and respects you before you give it up. Anything less than that doesn't, he doesn't deserve the most intimate part of you. Think about it!!
2007-02-14 10:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by pa_browneyedgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they disappear because they are afraid of commitment. they dont wanna get too close right away. and if they think they will fall asleep they will wake up with morning breathe or bad hair or u will expect something more from them
2007-02-14 10:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the guy usually doesn't actually care about the person he had sex with.
2007-02-14 10:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Lucy 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋