There is this guy, I swear that i have every reason to date him, but for some reason i just can't. He's intellegent, funny, caring, athletic, very cute, and when i'm around him i know i can be myself and when i'm around him I just want to be a better person. Should I date him even while i still have this one part of me that feels kinda odd with the whole situation?
2007-02-14 10:42:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, you should date him and take things slow. i have been in the guy's situation. this girl i was really interested in always told her friends that i was a perfect match for her and that she always wanted to be around me, but that she just didn't have the feelings she needed to take things to the next level.
the problem is that you are simply not attracted to him--it is as simple as that. he may be a good looking guy, but you are not attracted to HIM. he is not connecting to you emotionally, and you are not drawn to him. unfortunately, a lot of people miss out on great relationships because they don't give things a try, and they are not willing to put in the effort. the attraction to HIM can grow if you are willing to focus on what is most important to you and not let your emotions control you and your decisions.
girls may disagree
2007-02-14 11:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by rayden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably help to know what is causing the odd feeling. Once you discover that you will know if you want to proceed or not. Sounds like from the rest of the description, it is worth a shot. But I would take it slow, just to make sure it is what you want, and to give yourself a backdoor in case the odd feeling is on target. .
2007-02-14 18:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u feel this guy is too good for u, if he makes u feel like u want to be a better person, he may be just the one to date if u want to change something about yourself u aren't quite comfortable with. maybe he is different than the ones u dated before, and it feels odd. but i would give it a chance anyway.
2007-02-14 18:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that u want to be with him,them don't let anything hold u back.that part is just satan holding u back keeping you from happiness.look inside yourself and you'll see that he is the right person for you.love is very precious and when u loose it u might regret in even if u don't love the dude now,liking him is a start so don't give up or let anything hold u back
2007-02-14 18:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by gillian k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might wanna wait for the right moment. u need to give ur whole heart into a relashonship. if u have doubts then wait till ur totally into him with all ur heart.
2007-02-14 18:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Rachael L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds great but if you still question the situation then he doesn't sound right for you.
2007-02-14 18:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by Cheers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a chance. if it doesnt work, then just end it.
2007-02-14 18:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your feelings luke.....uh, I mean lucy!
2007-02-14 18:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋